i already forgot how to respect some1 :'(~~

i already forgot how to respect some1 :'(~~whenever i go into social situation,i seems to lack the respect to any1 like making eye contact,or answering their question properly,i think i really need to visit a shrink*

 

Not being able to make eye contact is not a respect issue, more a confidence one. Do you tend to be shy and/or socially awkward? Do you find it hard to talk to people who you aren't very close to, and do you find yourself often getting nervous?

 

you can't forget how to respect someone...
that's just ludicrous.

respecting someone doesn't mean making eye contact, it just means that you don't treat them like they're lower than you.
Its a natural element of a person's behavior to respect others in ways of not doing things like hitting them for no reason or getting in someones face for no reason.

 

It seems more like you're lacking confidence.. But if you've "forgot" how to respect someone, perhaps you should go see a shrink because you may have psychopathic/sociopathic personality disorder..

Are there any more details you can give us to properly help you?..

 

like when i went to play baskeball with some people,they borrowed my ball,when i was about to return home,i just cant make eye contact and use the proper words to ask for my ball back...and when i asked the ball i just said "hey tom , sorry but i had to go home , i need the ball" , after those sentence then some1 said,"this guy is a dog,he only know tom , i will give him a punch next time if he dunno my name is "anderson"...i heard him saying this,and now i felt i disrespected all the guys playing basketball there as i didnt mention their name :'(....guys now i m too ashame to return to play basketball at that place...guys tell me what to do??

PS:sorry for poor english

 

It sounds more or less you're just shy and they're the ones disrespecting you...

 

Yeah it sounds like you're just shy. How can you have a game of basketball and then not be comfortable enough to say goodbye to them after wards? It's all up to you, just stop being shy and everything will be okay.

 

Eye-Contact = Feeling uncomfortable, not disrespect.
Answering their question = Feeling uncomfortable answering the question or not wanting to be forced to answering the question, etc, not disrespect.

Your definition of disrespect is wrong, therefore, you think you have problems respecting people.

That's just my opinion.

 

thx for all the advice,i guess i must change my own attitude and perception of "disrespect"....i will try to be more brave and less shy