I'm 18 and have been left many times, not even a single girl loved me for real, and I don't even hope I get to know one who will. I've been thinking about suicide over the past month, but really don't know how to do it and if it's worth it. Is there a girl who is loyal?
How to end this?
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Suicide is always a bad idea no matter the situation.
The fact is bud, girls are weird. You're only 18 and most people don't love people properly untill they are late 20's anyway, girls will always leave you until you find the right one... The only thing that does it is time and effort. No pain, no gain. If you don't go through the pain of a break up you won't gain the perfect girl in the end. That's just life really.. Most parts of life are brilliant and fun, just some suck like break ups..
The fact is bud, girls are weird. You're only 18 and most people don't love people properly untill they are late 20's anyway, girls will always leave you until you find the right one... The only thing that does it is time and effort. No pain, no gain. If you don't go through the pain of a break up you won't gain the perfect girl in the end. That's just life really.. Most parts of life are brilliant and fun, just some suck like break ups..
Well, the good news is that at 18 you are still very young and have plenty of time to meet girls that will be interested in you. Love will never come if you are out looking for it, you should focus instead on trying to work on your confidence and your game, and just date casually and try to have fun being young and single while you can.
The thing with great girls (from my experience), is that they usually come out of nowhere and totally blind side you when you least expect it. It is only natural to have to slay a few dragons to get to the princess
The thing with great girls (from my experience), is that they usually come out of nowhere and totally blind side you when you least expect it. It is only natural to have to slay a few dragons to get to the princess
You're young and have a lot more time to find that special someone.
There are those who are 50+ and have yet to find someone to love. It will happen, there is someone out there for you, you just have to search for it and want it.
There are those who are 50+ and have yet to find someone to love. It will happen, there is someone out there for you, you just have to search for it and want it.
Don't worry about finding the best woman at 18, it won't happen for a while, just go out and enjoy your self and its bound to happen like that. If you keep looking hard you are more likely to not find anything good.
I've learned the hard way that waiting for someone to come and love you is not the right thing to do. For the last year I've struggled with bouts of depression just because of girls. I think that it's best to wait. Someone will come, someone will love you, and you will be happy. But it's best to try to live your life to its fullest extent in the mean time.
Waiting for someone to come to you as a man is the wrong approach I believe. If you go out and enjoy yourself and don't actually intend to "find love" is the times you often find the best girlfriends you will get. This is because when you are intending to "find love" you will act differently than who you are and if someone likes you based on those differences then when they get to know you it will cause problems. If you just go out enjoy yourself and be yourself you are more likely to find someone who likes you for who you are and that is where the real chemistry is.
TBH you have to envy girls though who just have to look pretty and know when to sleep with a guy to find love.
There are only few honest and lovely girls left, most of them are superficial which I hate. I thought I'd found my real love, but she's forshaken me so it's really hard to believe there is another girl waiting just for me
You are 18, you haven't been around the world yet. Don't worry about that shit, its pointless. You are putting way too much stock into relationships at this point in your life, no offense but you seriously sound like a super clingy low self esteem type of person. You should get out more and enjoy yourself, forget about looking for women and just have fun and then the women will come.
Every girl you've ever been with, though they may have broken up with you, did love you for a while I'd say.
Love/a relationship that lasts forever is hard to find. Sometime s(most of the time, actually) it just doesn't work out, and it's better to end it.
As other people have said, you're only 18, having fun is more important then having a girlfriend. You need to work on yourself and your attitude towards life. I'm sure you wouldn't be interested in a depressed girl with low self esteem either.
Go out, have fun, and if you see a girl you like/want to get to know better, let her know.
Love/a relationship that lasts forever is hard to find. Sometime s(most of the time, actually) it just doesn't work out, and it's better to end it.
As other people have said, you're only 18, having fun is more important then having a girlfriend. You need to work on yourself and your attitude towards life. I'm sure you wouldn't be interested in a depressed girl with low self esteem either.
Go out, have fun, and if you see a girl you like/want to get to know better, let her know.
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You're only 18, give it time. I'm 20 and I still haven't found one.. unfortunately lol. ForeveraloneIam!
But nah suicide is something you do not want to resort to. Not having a girl isn;t the end of the world. You're just in the developmental stage at your age where you need a true loved one (Levinson's Psychological Development Stage theory). When the time comes where you meet that girl, you'll pray that didn't do anything rash (ie. Suicide). A LOT of teens at your age go through this stage, you're not alone
But nah suicide is something you do not want to resort to. Not having a girl isn;t the end of the world. You're just in the developmental stage at your age where you need a true loved one (Levinson's Psychological Development Stage theory). When the time comes where you meet that girl, you'll pray that didn't do anything rash (ie. Suicide). A LOT of teens at your age go through this stage, you're not alone
Actually I was hoping you were gonna tell me there's no hope left so that I could commit a suicide easier. I don't rly wanna give another shot and you won't understand why. I've already given her everything, first kiss first love and even my heart which won't ever be back again. I don't feel anything but pain and only see hopelessness. I may seem a bit depressed, actually am, but why should I stay in order to suffer more if I can leave with style while she's seeing me so that she can't forgive me as she promised once
TheGoon
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wow. no one on the whole planet can give a true definition of love; let alone a 18 year old. Don't worry about women and have fun. Enjoy yourself. There will always be girls (yes, even loyal ones), so enjoy single life and your youth while you have it.
Suicide is never the right choice, and shouldn't even be considered. It's pretty selfish in all honesty.
How would your parents feel
friends?
family?
neighbors?
your town maybe even whole city will hear about something like that happening, and how would that attention render your loved ones? Think before you act, and just enjoy your life.
TheGoon
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i'm sorry if i'm sounding mean but jesus dude you are 18 years old talking some romeo and juliet stuff like what "she took" from you can't ever be restored... well you're 100% wrong. If things weren't ment to be, then they weren't ment to be. i can understand you love her, but you have to be able to let her go. like i said before... you're 18... go hangout with your friends and get your mind of this girl. stop crying start laughing, she is the one missing out not you.
not to be narcissistic, but I thought she were different as I am. I'd never felt love before seeing her, and neither could I forget her when she first left me, yes she left me once, but she returned... how would my loved family feel and my friends? yes that should be the one preventing me from doing this, but I think I've become too selfish, I did everything she wanted, I was just too good. so when she see me dying she'll think about us again and realize she was wrong again but it's too late. I know this sounds cinematistic or so, but some of the girls I know are really nice but all of them have a boyfrend similar to me. so I say no to life, I may have found my love yes, I'm not certain I'd have, but it'd have lasted too long. and HOW COULD I start launghing while crying? either has to be stopped anyway, and the one forces to end the other...
Dude your only 18 and all the girls youve been with was probably because of infatuation, as you start to mature you will realize the true meaning of love and eventually youll meet that special someone, remember suicide isnt going to solve anything.
My brother has told my mother he's wanted to kill himself twice. My mom explained to him how selfish that would be of him. How that would affect me, and her. How all of his problems wouldn't go away, they'd be put onto us. Suicide isn't the way to go man.