ok
i can help you i guess...
first youd need a source.
get one from moparscape.org/smf
then just click runserver (in the source) jo get your server up and running
now theres two types of servers: hamachi and no-ip
1.no-ip
http://no-ip.com just go there and register with your email and add (on the left hand side)
you might have to port forward but i didnt just google how to portforward for your specific router
2. hamachi-
http://hamchi.cc just download the client and run it
you should get an i.p on the top of the small rectangle - thats the ip for your private server
then click on the triangle i think (or if not one of the buttons on the lower right hand corner of the hamchi screen) and click create network then create a few networks so when you advertise your server use liike ----scape and then 123 as your pass
ask me if you need help wityh anything and btw
mopar forums topics were deleted so youd need to wait to see if they back them up or whatever.. and also theres tutorials on mopar forums
so again just be patient and wait to see
if they restore the old topics.