Help with conversations..

[Straggler]

Find a common interest.

Then you can talk about that thing that you both are interested in. Conversations on a common interest can last hours

Other than that just talk about what you did that day, ask what she did that day.

Stuff like that, just talk about anything, its better than nothing. Generally once you start a conversation, no matter how pathetic it is, it'll get a lot better once you mention something that you both can relate to.

Exactly.

 

[Benwise]

Honestly, a simple "How was your day honey?" can spark a magnitude of conversations. "My day was horrible!" "What happened?" ----later in the convo--- "Do you want me to come over? I'll help you get through it" etc. Just go with the flow, let her do the talking and you do the follow-up.

How was you day, What are you doing, do you want to hang out, etc.

Just make SIMPLE talk. A long conversation can be sparked from the simplest ideas.

 

[itsallaboutfriends]

Possibly think about the things she does. If shes a sporty girl, talk about sports, if its sports teams make sure you say you like the one she likes, or youre screwed Lol but seriously, investigate what she likes, and really become interested and follow through with it!

 

[barrie j w]

Cut yourself.

You'll have something to talk about.

If he cuts himself he'll be too busy bleeding to talk.

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Honestly, a simple "How was your day honey?" can spark a magnitude of conversations. "My day was horrible!" "What happened?" ----later in the convo--- "Do you want me to come over? I'll help you get through it" etc. Just go with the flow, let her do the talking and you do the follow-up.

How was you day, What are you doing, do you want to hang out, etc.

Just make SIMPLE talk. A long conversation can be sparked from the simplest ideas.

Totally agree with that. ^. It doesn't have to be complicated, just ask her how her day was, what went wrong and before you know it you'll be back at her house.

 

[Rhett3]

The trick is to just talk about stuff that's going on around or whatever is around you. Music is always a good topic. Just talk about whatever you would with a friend and then throw some flirts in there.

 

[Guide]

Thanks for the help. I guess I just forgot the basics to conversation starting lol.

 

[darksilver]

Thanks for the help. I guess I just forgot the basics to conversation starting lol.

seems like your problem is that youre over thinking too much about what to talk about that you end up not talking/saying anything at all.

ease up your nerves and just talk. just say something and ask questions. example - tell her stories about something that happened during your day or ask her if anything happen and try to relate to it.

dont over do it on the miss you and love you messages... most of the time, depending on the girl of course, it could scare her away. it does get to a point where it could be too much and seems like an obsession and not love.

 

[waltrulz]

shes not for you then. move on.

 

[Dark Koed]

Just find something totally random that will start something. Or be offensive and then she'll say something but it won't be nice