Girl Problems

[montana1616]

So I don't know where to go with this anymore. Basically there is a girl I really like, we talk all the time and we have hung out quite a few times. Our first time hanging out we made out. I have told her how I feel and no matter what I tell her, she says that she is not ready for anything serious. Her ex really hurt her and now she does not want to do anything. This girl is super confusing because she has told me that she likes me, and we have made out. When I asked if we could be more then friends she told me she is not ready for that. I feel so much better when I'm with her and no matter what I do I can't stop thinking about her. I have told her everything, but she is just too scared to try anything. How can i prove to her that I'm different, and how can i help her get over her ex? She keeps telling me she needs time, and for a girl like this I'm willing to wait, but I have no idea how long it will take.

 

[I Only Sell]

Just wait it out. Let her come to you. If you think about it, what difference does it make in regards to how you feel, if you guys were "more than friends." You guys seem like you talk, hang out, and...make out, like you guys are in a relationship. Does the title "Girl Friend" really change a lot for you? Just wait for her. Just hang out like you guys normally hang out.

 

[montana1616]

Just wait it out. Let her come to you. If you think about it, what difference does it make in regards to how you feel, if you guys were "more than friends." You guys seem like you talk, hang out, and...make out, like you guys are in a relationship. Does the title "Girl Friend" really change a lot for you? Just wait for her. Just hang out like you guys normally hang out.

You know what, I never thought of it that way. Thats true so what if I don't call her my "girl friend". I just feel like the making out was a one time thing, and that she is pulling towards the friend zone. I am willing to do whatever it takes to be with this girl, and if i have to wait I will. But i dont want to wait and then find out there is another guy she now likes.

 

[I Only Sell]

You know what, I never thought of it that way. Thats true so what if I don't call her my "girl friend". I just feel like the making out was a one time thing, and that she is pulling towards the friend zone. I am willing to do whatever it takes to be with this girl, and if i have to wait I will. But i dont want to wait and then find out there is another guy she now likes.

You really have no choice. If you really like this girl, you'll have to wait it out, but I suggest you don't close yourself off from other opportunities. Right now, you are single. This means you can talk to other girls and flirt with other girls. You have that freedom, even if you like this particular girl. Not having her in the end is a possibility, and you should accept that. Just don't waste or let other opportunities pass you by just because you are hoping for something to happen with this girl.

 

[montana1616]

You really have no choice. If you really like this girl, you'll have to wait it out, but I suggest you don't close yourself off from other opportunities. Right now, you are single. This means you can talk to other girls and flirt with other girls. You have that freedom, even if you like this particular girl. Not having her in the end is a possibility, and you should accept that. Just don't waste or let other opportunities pass you by just because you are hoping for something to happen with this girl.

Ya I know, but thats easier said then done I think. Right now like no matter what I do I only think about this girl. I know so much about her and I think she is the most incredible girl I have ever met. But ya ill try to be open, its just hard to do right now

 

[I Only Sell]

Another thing that will help is keep yourself busy. Are you in...High School right now? Be involved in something you like to do. Like me, I love film, so I started writing stories and shooting videos. Being busy helps a lot

 

[statius]

Don't push her to a decision she myt hav thought that guy was the one I can relate to that and if its the same thing all I wanted for a while was friends.

 

[red0roses]

Just forget about being more then friends for a time and really just have fun enjoying her company and hanging out with her. After a time I am sure she will come to see you are a special person who will not abuse her physically or emotionally.

 

[I Only Sell]

It's so great seeing people supporting each other here. Hope you feel better man.

oh and red0roses, you can't donate through paypal. I wanted to do that as well, but then I saw you could only do cash or western union ):

 

[dragonfire455]

Bitches and hoes bro. Find someone else till she crawls to you.

 

[AfterLyfe]

Wait it out but don't be afraid to take new opportunity if you don't think your too deep in.

 

[red0roses]

It's so great seeing people supporting each other here. Hope you feel better man.

oh and red0roses, you can't donate through paypal. I wanted to do that as well, but then I saw you could only do cash or western union ):

Yes, but mods such as Firez will sometimes be willing take your PP money and get you donation status.

~I apologize that this is off topic~

 

[okkk]

Well, like the first comment said, you guys are pretty much dating..-.-? But heres how you can get her, and show her how you feel:

Do something INCREDIBLY romantic. Start the day off by getting someone, ANYONE, to give bring her just a single rose. Put a card in it that says: Have a nice day. -love, you'll find out soon. Start this on Monday, and for each day, add one more rose. (Monday, 1 rose, Tuesday, 2 roses, Wednesday 3 roses,...)

Finally on the seventh day, (Sunday) Send a bouquet of 6 real roses, and 1 obviously fake. Put a card in there that says: "Ill love you till the last rose dies". Then, (this will only add to it, but its optional) if you have an iPod Touch/Nano, get her favorite song, turn your iPod all the way up, and stick it in the roses. Then, right a small note on the site of the bouquet with your name on it. Im serious, girls love that stuff. :] If you did it, youd be my favorite guy because seriously...guys dont understand that we girls DONT want to be treated like your "guy friends"! We like to be loved and hugged, and romanced. Well...all the girls I know do. haha well I hope this helps. Im serious, really try this, and you WILL get her. Even the most tomboyest girls eat this crap up :]

 

[Nyx]

Give her time, and if she loves you she will eventually start a relationship with you, regardless what happened to her before she met you. Don't force her to be more than friends, but it's a good thing you spend a lot of time with her. So you can get to know her, and find out if she really is the perfect partner for you.