girl problems ( yer another one)

any way i have to be quick since its 11 pm and i got school early tomorrow

i met this chick last year and i was like damn she hot so any way later that year i added her of facebook then on msn i talk to her like every now and again

but when she finally came to my school she just ignores me i try to talk to her, but she just leaves when her friends around
but when it comes to msn she talks alot :/

and some times if she need help i help her but i feel used cause she doesn't talk to me, btw she is single :/
any ideas

to help out im 16 :/ and she about to turn 16

if i had a fucked up day put it on meh ms message she would ask if im okay and shiz
but i have been trying to getting to be more then friends with her but its so damn hard cause i never can find her at school or if i do find her she ignores me

tip/hints ect all will be appreciated

 

id suggest tune her on msn and when the night comes that she is online and drunk... try take advantage of it xD sounds like it is youe best shot. or atleast get some boobs via webcam... dont forget to share with the sythe bois !! hahaha . just tell her on msn that u dig her- then if she ignores u at school u wouldint have lost anything anyway.

 

thanks i guess any other tips?

 

sounds like she only talks to u on msn cuz she is
A. polite
B. bored

give it up dude. she doesnt talk to you irl

 

Not to be offensive, but are you a cool guy? Like, she isn't the type that won't talk to you because she doesn't want to ruin her reputation, is she?

 

^could be, I'd personally just ask for a date and see what her reaction is.

 

From my experience with women especially younger, they usually lack the attention span to pay attention to everything around them. (Not just girls, but boys as well.) A friend comes along and you get hooked into there story and forget what was happening before. While on a computer you can IM almost everyone pretty quick. Chances are you might not be priority one on her list when at school. (Because of school, her friends, lunch, classes, other boys. etc...) Do not take it personal...

The best advice is to stop thinking about it, just find a moment when you can get her alone, away from her friends and other distractions. I would recommend in person before or after school, when you have her complete undivided attention and ask her out.

The worse feeling people usually feel is wasted opportunity, if you wait it will only make it more difficult on your mind.

SO just pull her to the side during school and ask her out. Just try to make it clear what you want.

 

It might seem horrible, but she might not want to be seen with you in person!

Also, it's a lot easier to talk over a computer. She's probably not interested and you should stop talking to her really, if she won't even talk to you in person.

 

ignore her for a while and seee what happens

 

this.

 

well i will try that out soon

yer i think so but, her friends tell me different, they tell me that she asks about me where i go and why i disappear

doing that now on msn and facebook and others and when i c her she looks sad or some shit

EDIT :

also our family has really close history mine and hers

my dad was taught by her grand mother

and my dad friend is her dads friend

 

any more?

 

Ok, you need to just ask her on a date. something like this perferible in person when her friends are not around.

"Hey (Insert Name),
its great to see you, how have you been? well i would love to get to know you better these short chats on msn are killin me, maybe you would like to grab coffee after school, on me of course!"
You have to act confident, but stright forward is always the best. and women you have to get along espcialy if your not the best looking guy in the world, then you have to sell her on ur personality which is hard to do in a group!
Hope i helped!

 

Why don't you try and talk about it to her via MSN? Ask her why she won't talk to you in school. Also, try to ask her to hangout something; perhaps a basketball game or something?

 

Unfortunately mate it sounds like she's not interested in you. The other reason could be that she may be shy/embarrased, as if her friends will judge her? Are you in the same sort of "crowd" as her? If not this is probably the reason.

 

I suggest staying the fuck away from her, girls that age are nothing but sluts and if they aren't and you "fall in love" with them it will end within a year.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Truth.

 

Ask her. Just do it on fb or msn if you don't feel comfortable (or don't get the chance to) doing it face to face. Tell her how you feel, just don't sound like an idiot doing it. Word it as best as you can. That, or take my typical approach and do that whole, "Not to be rude, but this is really bothering me..." then proceed to bluntly and unashamedly ask your rude question.

 

tbh, leave her!

this is what mostly happens, recently happened with me , now i feel very good and refreshed rather being depressed and trying to get closer to her

 

I'd sugest looking for a new girl if she bails on you once her friends come, thats so cold. Have a proper conversation with her and ask her things you want answered, best thing is to be honest. Goodluck buddy

 

Amazed REALLY amazed it took 14 messages for someone to say this. Is this america's ways?
There's no more than that, don't try to understand how peoples mind works unless of course you are a psychiatrist.
Also, this
Chances are you might not be priority one on her list when at school.
There might be nothing outstanding with what is happening between you, your relationship is probably not even as profound to demand mutual interest.
I believe the most possible explanation is that you are the one that changes in school, not her, perhaps you are more nervous. I am certain that you don't feel as comfortable with her in school as you feel on msn or facebook. It probably has nothing to do with her not wanting to be seen with you.