Girl Help

Maybe you got the girls, but he is having problem, different life, when you where in high school this was like 3-6 years ago I am guessing ?

Useless post o.o

 

I dont think im hot shit because i smoke weed. i was smoking in my room(basement, by my choice) and i didnt know she was coming over and she caught me having a sesh with 2 ov my mates. then she ran away(still didnt know she was there) and went and told everyone. Before that i was quite popular but now or rather then i was hated by 75% of my friends because of it. I also got my Leadership badges and basketball captain rights stripped. So dont go around thinking i was thinking that i was hot shit smoking weed because only 4 people knew when i was smoking up until i got caught.

Well yea... at our school we dont really have cheerleaders.

I suppose your from america where that whole "Clique" Thing comes into place? We have that but like i am or sort of use to be a part of basicly all of them so i dont really know what its like there(from New Zealand).
I had a thing for a chick in my class from intermediate Year 7 about 5 years ago. Didnt really talk to her much until year 8. was in the same class for 5 years and the same english this year and year 9 we sort of became mates. Then last year i asked her out And she said no(lol) then i went out with A different chick because after that i kind of gave up on her and then she started getting all jealous saying i shouldve went out with her.So from then i was like WTF? But yea. Dont really know what you mean by "preppy". Like Hospitality Or something?

 

she ways hollister, ae ect alot and hangs out with popular ppl lik that, not saying if u wear those clothes u will be popular...

im just going to try and pace myself..and be me..which i know she likes...cause she tells me im awesome and funny and make her laugh...so i guess i have that going..

 

Yea ill just stop now. Because i dont get what all that sutff means.

Good luck anyways.

 

You have low confidence.
You worry to much about this Clocks on the Wall you have to chill out
I wouldn't recommend telling her you smoke/smoked weed wouldn't make you look cool
I'd suggest you hang out with her
Don't have a low self-esteem.

 

hmm well i do over do somethings with girls i LIKE...only cause i care. but this is osmething i need to just do and make me own dumb choices on otherwise i wont grow

 

You have to be chill with most girls, or else they will think you're a loser trust me I've had experience.

 

You talk too much it seems - just calm the hell down.

Unless you're a troll.

Besides the point, she'll dump you pretty fast if you're just a nervous wreck who talks to her 24/7.

 

"Are you going to prom?"
"I Don't know yet. Nobody asked me"
"Go with With me"(Try not to say as a suggestion)
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Work it out.

 

Bro just be you. Every GF ive ever had openly admits that they'd much rather a guy be them than be something to impress them. And I think any girl can say that.

Whatever you did is fine (obviously because she said yes).

Chances are that she likes you and you like her but ur both not gonna admit it. Its just gonna be a coincidence that you happen to hug/hold hands/etc. one day and then just agree on it.

Thats all i got.

But as Rocko says, "...you just do you, umma do me..."

 

Follow this.

Are you alittle, metro-sexual?



Don't try anything during prom. No fucking on the first date.

 

I Lol'd. Depends, If he gets her in the mood, she might even do it.

One Night Stand Ftw to be honest.

P.s> How is he a little Metro-Sexual?

 

well im not like that anymore, i dont wanna do anything like that, i respect her to much..she said yes to prom...so now i just need to be chill i think...and not be a creeper

btw swift, thanks
thanks to all tho for input

 

I'm 17 right now and in high school. I'm going to have my prom dance next year.

 

Well, are you going to screw the person on the first night? :embar: :love:

P.s: Uhm, you should like totally buy a nice costume when you get there

 

No lol I'm not going fuck her at all. She's a a friend of mine and I'm dating and everything.

 

That's bullshit. Girls love attention.

Just be yourself, just ask her some questions, like "What's your favorite movie?" or "What's your favorite color?" It may seem dumb but it's a real conversation starter because you might have the same interest and you'll talk about it.

I'm a shy person in general, but once you find that topic, you'll kick it off pretty good and eventually you'll open up to her or she'll open up to you.

Also, compliment her, girls love that. if your going to a prom with her, if she's wearing a nice dress tell her that she looks pretty in that, or if she has nice earrings, compliment her on that. The smallest things can make a girl smile, trust me man.

I hope this helped.

 

lmfao this is some funny shit right here.

 

I haven't hugged or kissed or done anything with the girl I asked to Prom lol. We are mostly just friends, I do really like her though. She has been talking to some other guy but for some reason I just have a feeling that her and that guy just aren't going to work out seeing how he is a total tool bag and she has even told me.

We just hang out and all, We are pretty close friends. I would like to go out with her but I don't think it will happen but its OK because I am still going to Prom with a super hot chick XD.

What I mean by all of this is just take your time, Don't try to be overbaring, she won't like it. Let her have her own space, don't worry about not hugging her or anything.

 

ahaha u fucked up