GF trouble

Tell her its a problem and if she wants to be with you enough she won't go. (She won't grind), but if she doesn't care and does just dump her, she obviously doesn't respect you enough

 

k nights over, was pretty decent for a while...
she danced with guys i danced with girls, but when i was with her she made it so obvious she wanted to go dance with someone else but insisted she didnt... then when i was about to leave i said bye to her and everything... so i was sittin in the lobby and i saw her talkin to 4 other dudes w/o shirts on, one with their arm around her, and she didnt care.
shes an attention whore.
idk what to do...
real pissed though and im talkin to her about it now

 

Kick her to the curb.

You basically summed up what type of girl she is.

 

DUMP HER!

If she thinks what she is doing is ok then she is mistaken, if you really want your GF having dry sex with other boys then carry on, otherwise dump her.

 

mate seriously dump her.

Shes going out with you and she was gonna 'grind' about with other men? I'm sorry but thats just taking the piss shes making you look like an idiot real talk.


JUST READ YOUR LAST POST

mate shes making you look like a complete mug, OTHER GUYS GOT HIS ARM ROUND HER?! Imagine what other people are thinking/talking

'look [gfs name] dancing with all those guys'
'wait isn't she going out with [you]'

Don't loose your pride aswell

 

Omg,

DUMMMPPPP HERRRRR

C'mon man, Do it! Most of us are waiting for you to just dump her! She's obviously a attention whore, probably bangs guys behind your back too or heavy petting.

 

i agree if you try to talk to her and explain it and she doesn't understand then fuck it don't even text here back dump u'll see if she really likes u she will text u for sure withing 3 days wait just 3 days i dint believe this was true ,trust me is very true it happened to me ,i couldn't take it anymore i had big felling for that girl but i waited and dint text her i waitted and she was begging and crying back i can sweear that on my mother life ,i fell like i taking this too serious but dont be affrai to lose her bro keep in mind if she doesn't do anything about something that bothers you that much , it means she was just not the right person sit her down talk to her and say either u pick me or u pick parties and if she pick parties dont be afraid to leave with out saying anything that makes them more anxious to want to talk to you gl man

 

If it bothers you, it's time to let go. Drop her.
Lay it out to her, before she does it to you. Don't let that girl who goes on other guys dump you!

 

i Already know what ima do
im bout to leave her for other reasons acutally but this just adds on to it,
thanks guys

 

We're all so proud of you infested. Show that slut you're not one to be fucked with, and dump her ass.

 

lol thanks man...

 

Girls work in mysterious ways, but i can almost certainly guarantee you that if she seen you grinding against another girl she would blow a head gasket, jealously also works in mysterious ways use it to your advantage, she is doing it to you.

Also im not Dr Phil but every time a releationship turns to games like this it almost always ends bad, just be prepared.. better yet cut her loose, once she gets the shits as it will only turn into a vengeful relationship..

eg: she will start sleeping with your mates or you will do that to her ect..

 

Talking to a dude without their shirt on is one thing. Having them put their arm around her, and her not being uncomfortable or remorseful about it shows that there is a huge lack of respect.

In short, it's time to let her go. You sound somewhat young, so there is more than enough time to search for someone better. I know it may suck for a bit, but I promise it will be worth it in the long run.

Good luck.

 

There's no way I'd have let that go on for as long as you did. You got there in the end, but you've gotta take control sometimes and think about if you really think things will change. In this case, I think it was pretty clear from the start she's not worth your time.

Hope it worked out well.

 

^^agreed

 

I agree, some girls do love the attention. However, YOU could give them heaps of affection and they still like the idea of other men finding them attractive.

I think you need to sit down and tell you that you feel uncomfortable over this.

How would she react if you had girl flirting with you all the time, rubbing themselves on you.

Relationships are two-way. If she can't accept this affects you, and acts immature about it, then she might not be worth the time.

It's your life, do what you want, but you don't deserve to be stood on. If you accept this, then its the start of a life time of letting pretty girls do what they want.

GL