LOL! got to love EA for that... Happens to me all the time buddy!
It may be something to do with your internet though. See what your NAT type is set too, if it's 'Strict' it may have something to do with it. You can change your NAT settings if you go to your routers/modems website or your internet provider I think...
Anyway, let's hope they're fixed for FIFA 13! EA have a mixed track record when it comes to servers... Some are good, others are terrible