Fat Or Ugly?

[PubStar Life]

First I will cite this: http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Corinthians+13&version=NIV



Next I will quote the first two of Buddhism's Four Noble Truths:

1. The Truth of Suffering - suffering is the sense of dissatisfaction at not having things the way you want them to be. It may be caused often by meeting something you dislike, being parted from what you like, or not getting what you want.

2. The Truth of the Cause of Suffering - All suffering without exception is caused by desirous attachment. Therefore suffering and dissatisfaction is directly related to attitudes within your own mind.

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Having said that, I can safely say any desirable material qualities are irrelevant. If I focus only on the good and bad physical points of a potential partner, I will find that I can only find dissatisfaction in the bad points. Looks and other material qualities therefore should not be contrasted like this. You aren't looking at the person, you're looking at your own mental projection of who you think that person is.

Secondly, you are describing a lustful scenario without love or compassion. If you don't have love and compassion, and you desire and become attached to something for its material qualities, then you are only deluding yourself.

Therefore, in the context of this thread I say neither.

what dude?

 

[gamesman99]

I'd prolly choose ugly with nice body.

 

[rstrader1471]

If you were forced to go out with a Fat or an Ugly girl who would you choose?

Ugly or Fat?

Simple. The one who has the most things in common and the one with the best personality.

 

[HerbertP]

Nice body and ugly face. id tap that anyday. bag over her head with holes to breathe and problem fixxed.

 

[djundead]

LOL wtf is this question. Like just find someone you like and date her. When asking the question "Fat or ugly" your trying to say that you dont like any both types (Or opposite case, your into fat or ugly girls and you just cant decide). Just go with someone you feel attracted to.

 

[Quaked]

So basically the question is nice face, or nice body.

I'd go with nice body.

What if she had an ugly body aswell?

 

[djundead]

Just look at yourself. If your fat and ugly just take what you can

 

[Dimethyl]

Definitely an ugly face because I can always put a bag over her head.

 

[xx Sean]

Simple. The one who has the most things in common and the one with the best personality.

My thoughts exactly....

 

[powerspec]

A fat girl,
But she better be fine,
But if it's a ugly girl,
Her body better be finer.

my opninon as well.

 

[FloydZeppelin]

What a well-thought-out question this is!

But between the face and the body, I'd have to choose the body.

 

[Loyal 2 da game]

Fat, because lipo is helluva lot cheaper than plastic surgery....

 

[SuF]

How fat / how ugly are we talking? Take either to an extreme and I wouldn't want either.

 

[Kenpen]

Both

 

[Chase]

Hmm... If it was a one night stand, I'd have to choose the one with nice body. But when it comes to dating, I think a cute face & personality are a must.

 

[Swan]

what dude?

Rather simple: there is no love in any action eventuating from the preferences which have been given. Any such actions draw you towards sensual desire which in turn is detrimental to overall happiness. Therefore I don't have a preference.

 

[Fall]

It depends, if the 'fat' girl has a pretty face, if she isn't even that fat, and if the 'ugly' girl has a nice body/etc. xP

 

[Zerkerfist]

An ugly girl with a good personality and/or good body wouldn't be so bad.

But fat girls are just a straight up no for me lol. I just can't make myself attracted to them, even though I know they need love to