well other person usually has 50+ ep than you die to them with over 76k or d boots than they get random loot (usually your money + other items) good luck
giver- has the item or coins in inventory, along with food
receiver- usually has his best armor on/coins/etc (highest risk)
giver- eats food as the receiver hits
receiver- gets loot (with 76k usually very profitable, with godswords and others there is things to be done to make the chance of getting gs very high)
You should give tricking a try, I did a fury trick for 10$ and got the fury plus 500k in other pvp goodies. Apparently, the best ep ranges from 80-90 idk why.