Early life crisis?

[Lilly]

I've only read the original post, none of the others.
So...

Everything in life has risks, if you want to enjoy your life, you should take the risk. You're not going to lose your friends... What's going to happen? They vanish in thin air when you leave? No. You have a mobile and so do they (I assume), you'll keep in touch and you can always visit them.

A lot of my friends have moved to different parts of the country and I still keep in touch and I visit from time to time. You can't expect to be surrounded by everyone you love all the time and you can't be expected to stay in a boring life.

I say just go and say "fuck you" to any of the risks. Yes you'll lose your job, but you can always get one in Hawaii. If anything goes wrong you can live with your brother for a while, just while you get things sorted.

You won't get anywhere in life if you don't go for what you really want.

This was actually really good advice

I'm going to Hawaii for two months as a "test" if that's what you want to call it. If at the end of the two months i want to stay, i'm going to.