did he lose intrest?? how do i keep him wanting more?

IMVUFret · Dec 24, 2012

So I went to a party last weekend. Don't get me wrong it wasn't a straight up rager it was more of a country type of party there were probably 15 people. So there was this boy who was shy and super sweet and we ended up by eachother at the end of the night. We didn't fuck or anything that extreme. If you must know he ate me out and fingered me that was it. He texted me the next day and we talked AAALLLL week long. Like constantly. I never texted him first and I went to another party yesterday(now these partys are like 40 minutes away from where I stay). The plan was he was gonna show up later after work but I didn't text him at all that day until way later when I asked if I was gonna see him later that night and he said no because he worked late I didnyt respond and he sent anothe r text appolgizing.

He did tell me that he doesn't hook up with girls every party. But now are conversations are borning and dull just regular conversation casual talk. We used to flirt and its just not even like that anymore. Now I could be over analysising this but idk. Seems like he lost intrestted in me. I told him I wanted to see him and that we should make plans for during break. And he said yeah.. but I kinda feel like he doesn't want to.. what did do I do? What's your stand poiint on this?

iJava · Dec 24, 2012

Well I would suggest meeting up and real life and just try to have fun, don't talk about your relationship with him. See if you have fun and if he's having fun.

Shoop · Dec 24, 2012

Yeah what iJava said

When you go out with him don't mention anything about your relationship with him, that will generally drive most teens away.
He wouldn't have said yes if he didn't want to go out with you, he would have used some bull excuse.
Just go out with him and have fun

kmjt · Dec 24, 2012

Text him first sometimes. Maybe he got annoyed you would only talk to him when he started the conversation?

Noob · Jan 24, 2013

Sometimes those things happen, people tend to lose interest just like that, specially males. maybe he was drunk in the party?

Deathsnova · Jan 25, 2013

Text him to go together to the next party or meet with him at the movies just you two. This time dont give him the full prize if you want him wanting more.

Integrate · Jan 25, 2013

Lol you posted like 3 of these already! Just try to have fun with him, having fun doesnt mean to get into serious things, he seems like a busy person too so give him his space. Try to text him sometimes but not like 3 times per day or something exaggerated, text him like 2 times per week or around that, like "Hey how are you?"

FEAR1 · Jan 25, 2013

You said he is shy and sweet, but you chronically avoid texting him first.

Compromise and don't play so hard to get, if he is shy and sweet he might have just thought at some point that he was pushing too far too much and that you just were not interested.

See him in real life, and make a phonecall once in a while.

GodGenesis · Jan 26, 2013

Try to arrange for a meet up and express your likings to him.

Most important thing is to be yourself and have fun! Try to think too much into it.

Pretty-Girl · Jan 27, 2013

Do not take it seriously. Dont ask him to go out too frequently because he may feel boring. Guys are easily change, you should prepare for losing him at anytime.

Loyal 2 da game · Jan 29, 2013

shoot him some nudes at random, that'll get him hella interested

lmao

kfjjjdst · Jan 31, 2013

Well; Listen. If you talk with someone for a whole week constantly, you pretty much get to know everything that you can through texts or phone, et cetera. He may have lost interest for you ( I don't know him, nor you, so it would be hard to form an oppinion on that ).

I guess you should meet up with him, you will be able to tell better when you meet up IRL, arrange some plans, and just flow with the future

Don't overconcentrate things, let things happen

Don't bug him too much, I for instance get very annoyed if girls, well anyone really, wants to meet with me and tries to arrange plans with me; Cause I for example like to arrange things myself, and get annoyed when others try to do it instead of me.

I hope my answer helped, if you want to further elaborate, maybe I can give you a more precise advise, if you wish, feel free to shoot me a PM and I'll read and tell you what I think!

GL!