Communication & Conversation

[kou19962010]

We'll I am going to keep this simple and sweet. Recently a lot of people have been trying to communicate with me and I am the type of person who doesn't really contribute anything to keep the conversation alive. I was just wondering on some suggestions on what to talk about. They don't need to be in-depth and its only for general situations like how was your day, etc.

 

[blazinfasstt]

I've never been much of a communicator, simply because most of what people talk about bores me.

If you want subject matter, the most important thing is that you find a couple of things that really interest you. That way you'll be motivated to learn more about them, and when you're knowledgeable enough about something, people will always think that you're intelligent when they talk to you.

What do you like to do? What are your favorite subjects in school?

i dont think this is correct

he is looking to fit in. he already stated that his interests do not conform to others.

i think what he needs to do is find out what they like and feign interest.
ppl will like you a lot more and you will seem like less of an loner.

personally, i dont put up with ppls bullshit. that is why i only have a few good friends and many many superficial bullshit friends.

 

[kou19962010]

I've never been much of a communicator, simply because most of what people talk about bores me.

If you want subject matter, the most important thing is that you find a couple of things that really interest you. That way you'll be motivated to learn more about them, and when you're knowledgeable enough about something, people will always think that you're intelligent when they talk to you.

What do you like to do? What are your favorite subjects in school?

I have the same issue that the reason I do not communicate much nor well is because of the fact that it bores me. I am more mature and have very few similar interests to others.

i dont think this is correct

he is looking to fit in. he already stated that his interests do not conform to others.

i think what he needs to do is find out what they like and feign interest.
ppl will like you a lot more and you will seem like less of an loner.

personally, i dont put up with ppls bullshit. that is why i only have a few good friends and many many superficial bullshit friends.

If you think I am a loner your wrong. I am actually quiet popular tbh and I am not trying to fit in with people because I can successfully do this on my own. The issue I am having is 1 on 1 communication rather than fitting into a group of friends.

 

[Gurtaton]

What are your interests, exactly?

Just looking at and memorizing a list of questions you can ask isn't really going to keep you motivated to keep conversing. You have to let yourself come up with the questions. What you should ask really depends on who you're talking to, a stranger or a friend. I usually tell all my friends the type of guy I am, so they know when to talk to me and when to leave me alone.