Cell Phones and Privacy

[djweasel]

So my GF always questions who I'm texting when I'm on sythe on my iPhones and a couple days ago I saw her phone was here and I looked at her pics and she had some of her that I haven't gotten. Now I saw in her sent texts she sent some to her ex and she said something along the lines of "you should come visit me I'd love to fuck you again." am I crossing the line. I get mad she accuses me and she's doing worse things. Now I am bottling this up and taking with a grain of salt cus she is like 1600 miles from him.

I checked her inbox and that was clean so she had to have deleted them. I have told another friend but I'm so nervous now. It's like what the fuck because I'm being 100% truthful to her and not texting other girls or anything.

 

[Arcus Isidar]

If she honestly did text that to her ex-bf recently then I would leave her instantly. That's fucking nuts, and there's no excuse that she's 1600 miles from him.

But in all honesty, I'm really sorry for you bro, but you will rise above!

 

[SmperFidelis]

There is no excuse for that behavior from her. You are being completely honest with her, and she's sending pictures of herself to her ex, who is 1600 miles away. I suggest confronting her, work your way into a conversation about them. If she still denies it, I would leave for a few days, hang out at your friends house or something, and see what happens. Really sorry for you at this point, and if you need to talk, you have my MSN added.

 

[naggiii]

Not trying to sound insincere, because that really sucks, dude. But, if she's doing that for real, you shouldn't even hesitate. That's crazy, you shouldn't even think twice about confronting/leaving her.

 

[BeeVer]

The same girl you got the flowers for?

Dam. I would leave her or give it time.

Watch this, it always makes me laugh. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KRalzoVLuzE

Edit: Watch the vid, it's your exact predicament or if you don't wanna follow the link paste this into youtube. GIRLS, GIRLS, GIRLS, EPISODE 7 by CODchameleon (Modern Warfare 3 Gameplay/Commentary)

 

[djweasel]

Ya and it's her bday Friday. I wish that I stayed off her phone.

 

[Quatakai]

After what she has done, she doesn't deserve you, cut her loose. Whatever happens, keep your chin up.

 

[Dave]

Ya and it's her bday Friday. I wish that I stayed off her phone.

You'd rather be blind than to know the truth?


If this is the same girl you were intending on marrying/almost had that child with I'm so incredibly sorry but you should first confront her about it, if something can't be done about the situation, then I hate to say it but it would be best to leave her.

Don't get so caught up in love that you don't realize that you're not being treated right. What she's done, if I read this post right, is absolutely 100% wrong.

 

[djweasel]

I'm kinda thinking things out and gonna talk with my buddies that know me the best soon.

 

[Karl]

Wow man, Ridiculous.

With the whole baby situation and the intention to marry, I wouldn't like to be in your shoes, think it over for a bit, make sure you're ready for the consequences of confronting her if you decide to.

If that was me, I'd approach her first saying if there was anything she'd like to confess, anything at all.. then depending on that answer, start talking to her about it, but don't try and get angry, assuming you want to work this out and not leave her.

You need to be willing to fix this and make her willing to too, or you need to end it now, or even take a break, you must make her know that you're serious about your relationship and that means you have to be exclusive to eachother and that you won't tolerate her sending pictures and/or texts to other guys asking for sex.

Unfortunately life has put you into one of those ultimatums, either that or you could forget about it, but it'll only make you more suspicious and it'll hurt even more if she does go through it with him.

Sorry to hear it bro, much love.