Being introvert..

[c41n]

Is the worst way to live life, and its destroying mines.
It's somewhat being shy, and not funny. I try to talk to people but it never works. I have friends at home, but they find me not funny at all. I want to be funny like them, and outgoing but i been like this forever and i wanna change it.
I fucking hate it.

How can i overcome this situation?

 

[Ganzta-Freak]

Just try to fit in your own way. If you don't get seen, you will not get popular. It's rough but it's just how it is. Try doing something that makes you get more confidence to talk and stuff like that.

 

[wtp]

Try harder.

 

[Maleficent]

I'm the exact same way but people tend to find me funny but I don't think so. Trying to fit in usually won't work if you don't share any common ground with the people you associate with. As for being outgoing I fail in that category

 

[lawlzer4]

Well if you really should find different poeple

 

[Guineapigcal]

You know what, heaps of people on sythe are probably in the same boat. Being an introvert isn't all bad, cause even though extraverts love to go out and party and shit, they'll never have the same connection or thought that an introvert would have. Sure, introverts might not be extremely popular or the cool kids but it's just the way we are. To be honest, the cool kids and people who think they're popular always seem so shallow and boring. Just accept who you are and do what you enjoy doing, maybe sometime soon you will meet some people like you.

 

[Necromancer24]

If you don't get along with your current friends/they don't appreciate you, just move on and find new friends. Ones that'll appreciate you for what you are.

I'm an introvert too. I don't like to show my emotions. I just stopped caring what people said and just moved on. I found new friends who like me a lot.

 

[1234567ASDF]

Just love yourself for who you are. Being an introvert isn't the worst thing in the world you're just still discovering yourself at this point in time and maybe haven't become accustomed to yourself yet. Don't worry, a lot of girls like shy guys, and you'll grow out of a lot of the shyness as you get older.


Good luck

 

[volvic]

I guess you always got the internet..

and the above is not true, especially where I'm from they wan't a guy who is able to run things be confident be top dog.

 

[1234567ASDF]

Introvert has nothing to do with actual confidence. Being an introvert adds mystery to a lot of guys. You can be shy but confident as well.


It's all a manner of using what you've got to your advantage.

 

[†Tysonâ€Â]

Don't worry, i used to be the same.

Instead i found something i was good at, that gave me a lot of confidence. I became really good at ice skating, in a very short period of time. I then started playing ice hockey, in which i became one of the best players on the team. So on the ice, i was incredibly confident, and became very social with my team mates. Previously, i was never at all funny, yet being more social, just changed my personality and lots of people found me quite amusing.

Eventually that confidence expanded into most aspects of life, and i found it easier to make friends etc. I would even talk to random people i had never met before, which is one thing i would previously never found myself doing, considering i was so shy/unconfident that i didn't even like ordering food from places.

So, my suggestion is to try to find something you are good at, or an area you are confident in, this will 'eventually' help you in more aspects of life! Just be patient and persist at it though, you can't change your personality overnight!

Hope my suggestion can help you out!

 

[drainingpower]

I'm pretty sure you are creative, try drawing, creating music, that will really make you feel better.

 

[c41n]

Thanks Finn
But i have a girlfriend, and im a little humerous. But i think she likes me for me

 

[iSpongebob]

Have something common between your friends which you can talk about, for example : If they play games that you could take part in or movies that you have watched, these are just examples of what you could talk about.


Good luck.