backstabbed/heart broken?

[needhelp1]

ok so about 2 weeks ago me and my friends were chilling at a hookah bar and my friend invited some girls, there was one i didnt talk to that requested me later on fb so i added her and everything was going good. i got her # and asked her to a date tommorow(which i arranged last wednesday) i told her we should go to a hookah bar but she doesnt have to smoke(her friends just brought her along that day to the bar tho) she said who else would be there and i mentioned just us, shes like okay sure. also i didnt mention the word "date", i twisted the situation around cause she wanted to challange me to a basketball match originally.

now today she was visiting a college ane i decided to call her, i called her, she picked up but hung up without saying anytying, called her again 1hr later and went to voicemail. then 1hr later again on facebook my newsfeed was updated with her status saying "030611 *guy's name* <3 )" and now im thinking fuckkkkkk and ppl comment saying they are witnesses and that is true love.

so i dont know what to do about tommorows date, weather she will show up, bring this guy with her, flake on me, or everything would go as planned. i also dont know what to say to her tonight on fb chat now , do i ask her about her status? confirm tmmrws date? help ppl of sythe, thanks.

 

[Prada]

im sorry your answer went unanswere for over a week. Honestly cut your losses think of it in your head am

 

[Prada]

i going to be with this person in 5 years trust me at our age its just meeting ppl not settling down.

 

[malyce]

If you really like the girl, go to the hookah bar and talk to her about it (bring it up casually after having a good time). If she says she's seeing someone else, offer to be her friend. If she's not seeing someone else and her status update was something minor or trivial, ask her for a second date.

If she is taken, you'll at least have made a new friend (and in time possibly something more). If she's not taken, take your shot!

The ball is in her court now, you've set up the date already and done everything you can do.

Also, I'd like to add, if you want a better chance of "being with her" leave the hookah bar and go do something she enjoys doing, not something you do and she doesn't.

 

[Luring King]

Dude if she's found another guy then sorry but he got there first. I would probably invite another person along to the meetup so you aren't the third wheel in case she invites the other boy, but if it's only her, tell that person they may need to say "fuck off" if things are going good. This is assuming you don't want to call etc.

Also you're not heartbroken dude, you met the girl once.

Reading that again, it looks like the 'date' already happened so I hope things went well.

 

[Sanctuary]

Did you think about the possibility that the person mentioned on facebook might just be one of her close friends?

If you really like her, then go to the bar anyways. If she shows up, hey, thinks could possibly work. If she doesn't, hey, you only met her once. It's not possible for you to already be "heartbroken" over this though, honestly.