Avoiding the FRIENDZONE

[wakka333]

Alright so before we start I want 2 tell you that I dont need help getting with girls in the USA.

So I have an exchange student who I want 2 get with, but its gonna be awkward and its only for 3 weeks. We are gonna be partying and smoking every weekend.

How do I get with this chick when she's from overseas. I have a month before I go there, and I need to be the plumber.

If you want to "clean her pipes," Mario, then your going to have to act like the man. Seriously, if you want the hot sexy type of girl you have to have self confidence, and alot of it. You know how people say be yourself? That is extremely true. If you try to be someone your not, your going to be lacking that self esteem. If she doesn't like who you are, then fuck her. There are numerous girls out there, one girl doesn't matter.

Don't get stuck in the friendzone if you really want to get with her. It fucks stuff up sooo horribly. I lost a dear friend, whom i knew since i was 10, because i tried to venture out of there, don't do it if your not willing to lose all conact with her.

 

[Grammar-Nazi]

It appears, from the way you've come across in your thread, that you're "going with the girl for the sake of it" and that there isn't really any feeling. Yeah, okay, 'it will be a laugh' but is this person the person you want to spend the rest of your life with? If she was, you would know what to do. Love and relationships are challenging things. Moreover, the majority of times you will need some support. The best support you can get, is from the relationship itself. If you truly have feelings for this person, then tell her that. Let her know how you feel, then, together, you can resolve your situation. Even if it means seeing her at weekends, if you have strong feelings for her, it's got to be worth it.