Advice on "Gay Experiences"

[UnregisteredExperience]

First if I don't post back its not that I do not appreciate the advice its that I can't figure out how to reply as a unregistered.....

I guess what it boils down to is I feel like I need to have a gay experience. I have dated and have messed around with a decent amount of girls, but I have been hurt several times because of it. For whatever reason I feel like I would not rest decently until I try at least everything once. I am 19 and starting college soon, and I rather keep any experience I have with this a secret.

Is this healthy? I don't get why I want it so badly, I guess I have always been open to trying new things. Can anyone offer any inward advice? Something to convince me out of it, or I should do it? If you have something you want to say but you don't want to post it on here, please leave me a skype or msn, I will gladly contact you.


This question is to girls as well as guys. I am REALLY curious to here a girls opinion on this....

Thank you

 

[quinck]

First off, having a gay experience will only pleasure you for that time period, and the rest of the time, you may think back and regret it, however you wont know until you try.
Maybe you just havent met the right girl and so you feel like the next way to go is looking for a guy since it may be easier, however I disagree. I would just continue looking for a girl, and youll find that one with time.

Also, unfortunately there are misunderstood people out there who will make your life pretty hectic if they were to find out, and gossip travels fast with the internet these days.
Just stick it out bro and continue looking for that girl. You'll find her, get married and have an excellent family one day, trust me. You're still young and there is no need to rush into it.

 

[Skyline GTR]

I understand where you come from, i have been hurt a lot of time and i feel like maybe guys are different but when it comes down to it i don't find guys sexually attractive. In the end it is a healthy thing to think about and i really dont see any wrong at all with experimenting - you have nothing to loose at all! Even if people do find out you just need to be strong and realize that there is nothing at all wrong with what possibly happened . Shoot me a Pm if you want

 

[ShockWaveee]

If you're only doing this because you're not having luck with the ladies, you're doing it for the wrong reason.. although I don't think that's your reason.

You sound like you enjoy relationships with women rather than men, and just want to have a sexual experience with a man. It's perfectly natural to be curious, there is definitely nothing wrong with you. If you keep this feeling bottled up, you will probably end up regretting it later. I would say you should probably act on it, if the urge is really that strong. The only way you could really "regret" doing it, is it you got an STD or something. If you never act on it, you'll never know whether or not it's for you.

Free yourself from your inhibitions and the social stigma regarding homosexuality and just give it a try. You will either like it or you won't. If you're worried about people's thoughts on the subject then find someone you trust to do it with.. although I really don't think you should even care what people think. If someone is going to not be around you just for being gay, or bisexual, they're not your friend anyway. You should be able to be yourself around your friends, not who they want you to be. gl.