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Well guys I honestly hope I don't get trolled, I wouldn't usually come to sythe for a problem like this, but I might as well.

A girl I had been dating for over a year and a half moved to italy at the end of the summer. Basically I loved her, and we were in a pretty good relationship. When she moved I was crushed and basically didn't do anything at all. I got suspended from my lacrosse team cause I just didn't give a fuck enough to go to practice. Well anyway this winter break she is coming home to visit. What do I do?
 
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Damn that has got to be tough. I bet she'd be up for hanging out but I don't know if thats going to make you feel better or just make it hurt more.
 
Forget about that relationship man. She probably has hooked up with some guy in Italy, and you are now most likely in the friend zone. That is going to be one awkward reunion.
 
Make the time you have with her count man, that's all I can think of.
Theres an old proverb I cant remember how it goes but in a nutshell: if you lover her let her go, if it doesnt work out it wasnt meant to be.
 
In short.. A friend, perhaps a very close one is coming home. Take what comes with no expectations and enjoy the fact that tomorrows are unlimited in possibilities; don't rush em. Smile!
 
Explain how much you miss her and that you like her - hopefully she'll understand and maybe come and see you ever so often and you can go and see her. I hope everything works out.
 
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Don't try to get back with her/Get close again unless you want to be hurt again when it's time for her to leave. I had sort of the same thing happen. I knew a girl, I thought about her all the time, was the first girl that I actually went out to places with not just sit at home and watch movies, etc. She ends up moving to Italy also. I'm going to be honest with you, I could not stop thinking about her for the first 3 or 4 months, and then we just stopped talking, and went out separate ways.

She Is living her life, I'm living mine and I can't say I miss her at all anymore. Greater things will come with patience. She is most likely going to meet someone in Italy anyways and you can't be waiting for her your whole life. Get up, get out and meet new people and I promise you will forget all about her.
 
What do you mean "what do you do"? You hang out with her, and see how it goes. Dont drive yourself crazy considering possibilies, what may happen, or what you want to happen.
 
Have you even spoke to her about it?
Ask her to hang out, there's not much else you can do. As Nate said, see how it goes from there.
 
Stay friends if you don't wanna be crushed again.
 
She's coming home to visit, not to permanently stay. I'd catch up with her a bit, yet, at the same time, I'd recommend not getting too close; you don't want to get hurt again.
 
BTW guys, I talk to her on webcam just about everyday
 
So if you talk to her on your webcam nearly everyday you must be pretty close and obviously you two still really care about each other. So when she comes back, bring her some flowers, take her to dinner and go have a nice night. How long is she coming back for?
 
Pretty tricky, tbh..

If I was you, I'd meet up with her, catch up, etc. But then after this little visit, I'd try to cut things off with her.

You don't want to be living your life as though you're together with this girl, when all you do is talk to her on cam.

What I'm trying to say is, someone else can make you happier than she can. Don't jeopardize finding someone else because of your ex.
 
Just chill with her, take her out to a few places, etc

Just try and keep a extremely good friendship with her
 
If your keeping in touch on webcam catch up.

Do you know why she moved? If you two are young and she had to move with her parents or w.es you shouldn't really hold it against her as she probably had little choice in the matter.
 
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BTW guys, I talk to her on webcam just about everyday
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Then i'm guessing you guys must talk about how much you miss seeing each other face to face?

I'm sure it'll be a great meeting. You must miss her a lot, don't you? You never really know what you got until it's gone; so make every moment count. I would definetly spend as much time as possible holding and kissing her since you don't know when your next chance to do so will be.
 
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