Nick,
I'm really starting to become more than stressed with your efforts lately. I have told you lately how <brother in law> and I are feeling and it doesn't seem to matter because nothing changes. I need you to understand that this is unhealthy for me especially since I am pregnant! Stress can make a person sick but is also harmful to the unborn child. I cannot continue through this summer like this. <brother in law> and I really try to be fair and decent but we need you to become more responsible for yourself and the things that need to be done. At this point we have made a list of 14 places that you could apply to. I expect that by this Monday 5/16/10 you will have applied to all 14!(yes its bold in the letter) If some on our list don't seem fitting to you then you can come up with your own, but I am expecting you to have applied to 14 places (not including <local grocery store I already applied to>) by Monday- and don't think you can wait until Sunday to try to start this- you will need a few days to get it done. One thing I've always said is when you don't yet have a job, looking for a job is your job and you should be putting in as much effort and time into finding a job as you would be working on one. If you appreciate the room we are providing for you, you will take us seriously. If you choose not to change your efforts and the 14 applications are not complete by the time we get home from work this Monday - we will be asking you to leave the house for good. No excuses. I hate to have to see it coming to this but I don't know what else to do to get you motivated and I'm not living like this this summer - It's too stressful.
(signed)
<older sister and husband who have been taking care of me since I was 13>
I'm really starting to become more than stressed with your efforts lately. I have told you lately how <brother in law> and I are feeling and it doesn't seem to matter because nothing changes. I need you to understand that this is unhealthy for me especially since I am pregnant! Stress can make a person sick but is also harmful to the unborn child. I cannot continue through this summer like this. <brother in law> and I really try to be fair and decent but we need you to become more responsible for yourself and the things that need to be done. At this point we have made a list of 14 places that you could apply to. I expect that by this Monday 5/16/10 you will have applied to all 14!(yes its bold in the letter) If some on our list don't seem fitting to you then you can come up with your own, but I am expecting you to have applied to 14 places (not including <local grocery store I already applied to>) by Monday- and don't think you can wait until Sunday to try to start this- you will need a few days to get it done. One thing I've always said is when you don't yet have a job, looking for a job is your job and you should be putting in as much effort and time into finding a job as you would be working on one. If you appreciate the room we are providing for you, you will take us seriously. If you choose not to change your efforts and the 14 applications are not complete by the time we get home from work this Monday - we will be asking you to leave the house for good. No excuses. I hate to have to see it coming to this but I don't know what else to do to get you motivated and I'm not living like this this summer - It's too stressful.
(signed)
<older sister and husband who have been taking care of me since I was 13>
id I mention I just woke up like an hour ago? at 10PM? lol
