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D4rk Sp3rt4n

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Now before you read my post would you please not make any rude comments that are immature or offending. The problem I have is getting a girl.

I know most of you have had problems similar to the problem I'm having now. There is this girl in my school, you know those girls who the whole school knows about and all the nerdy people like? Well I have a problem with getting to know her better. She thinks I'm funny and nice but she doesn't know that much about me.
I want some of you guys to help me with me getting to know her and her getting to know me. I have her for three classes which is a nice time to talk but it's just not enough for me to talk to her. I can't really get enough time to talk to her outside of school so what should I do.
I know I may seem like some hopeless guy but you guys might be the only people who can help me because number one, you don't go to my school, number two, you don't know the person. If I ask even my best friend at school the next day half the school will be saying "Do you really like her?"

Please no rude answers that are immature or rude.
 
Well me I date older chicks, but I think I can still help you.

Anyway's you say she thinks your funny and nice meaning she already knows you which saves allot of time. Also if it was me I would want the whole school knowing I really like her it would be a great start.
Or you could do it the hard way and try find out her interests, and can make a sacrifice and join some clubs she's in etcc so you get more time to chat to her, get to know her better.

But honestly get the word out, because you could go through allot of effort only to find out she has no slight interest in you, that's my advice.
 
If you friends with some of her friends (guys and girls) ask them if they want to have a fire or game night or something at your house. Then go up to her, or have one of your friends who is going, go up to her and ask her if she wants to come too.

It worked for me, I was best friends with the girl that I liked friends, it worked for me. However, she is too much of a friend now to do anything with, which does suck because I still like her a little bit. However, we are kinda like best friends, we are always with each other when we have classes and we can fuck around with each other (aka poking her in the side, pretending to sleep... on her boobs (haha, it was so awesome! LAWL))

But yeah, just ask her to hang out with a bunch of friends and you, never ask her to hang out just you and her, because that will be really awkward, wait until you get to know her better then you can just hang out by yourself.
 
If you have her in 3 CLASSES, grow a pair, send a note or talk to her.
 
If she knows you, just ask her out on a date or have a little party at your house or something.
 
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Talk to her, ask her, try to flirt wit her and if she flirts back ask for a number.
 
If you have 3 classes with her, that's soo many free opportunities to get to know her. You already have that in common, just work from there.
Nothing will happen unless you make it happen. Go out there and talk to her. Trust me, don't miss opportunities like that - you'll spend the next few months wondering "what if".
 
Well, i sort of had your problem in high school. Most girls saw me as the class clown and thought i couldnt handle a serious relationship. But if you think she's right for you, just try to talk to her, get to know her and let her get to know you. Then when you feel comfortable enough, or you can read her body language and tell she sort of likes you back, pop the question. It's better to ask her than to wait on an opportunity that may never come.
 
Honestly the best thing to do would be to approach her and ask her out, that's what I do and it hasn't failed me yet.
 
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Please post a picture of yourself and a picture of you. Please include some interests of yours and some of hers, maybe that would help us? :)
 
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^ This.
And TBH, only way HS relationships work out is if guy asks girl out.
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Bluetooth is your best friend for bitches. If they have discovery mode on their phone you'll already have their number. To kill the akward-ness of seeming like a stalker, make a joke when u txt her like "Who's number is this" and she'll text back.. it breaks the ice. Alot of kids do that in my school.
 
Bluetooth is your best friend for bitches. If they have discovery mode on their phone you'll already have their number. To kill the akward-ness of seeming like a stalker, make a joke when u txt her like "Who's number is this" and she'll text back.. it breaks the ice. Alot of kids do that in my school.

Same trick works if you wanna annoy the fuck out of teacher's with their bluetooth on >_<, what some people are doing now is searching for their crush on facebook lolz, try there.
 
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