its only mental anguish if you lose it and thus that wasnt your true love, who knows swan you might find someone in your later years. and love isnt about knowledge or working, its the feeling of having someone there when you need it, so your saying you dont love your parents? or they dont love you? theres 2 forms of love, the love you have for your friends, family, pets, etc. and then theres the deeper love, the compatibility's with someone you feel, the lust and want for them, the deep satisfaction that you know that they have the same feelings for you, you can see it in there eyes. the first time i looked into my soon to be wifes eyes, i knew she was my other half "my soul mate" if you will, age means nothing in the game of love and some people know that, some people ignore it, some people think its a bunch of bullshit, but everybody finds out one day, what love actually means.