Hello, yes of course
We agreed on 850M at .20$/m, when I tried to send him the UKBT, my bank asked for his DOB. This is highly unusual and only happened to us a few times in thousands of transactions, so it's clearly unpredictable and outside of our control. Ibs refused, and wanted to be paid immediately. I'm obviously not going to refund anything before my bank funds are secured. I've put in a random DOB and the bank payment still shows as "Sending", so it might even go through. I contacted my bank, and they said they would look into it. If the payment doesn't go through, I will obviously send him the funds through PayPal.
I already explained this to him on Discord, but he wanted to be paid immediately. I already told him I can't, as I'm going to wait until I either get refunded or the funds get sent to him