My girlfriend has a transgender friend.

Hey

I'm a live and let live individual. I sincerely don't give a fuck what you do with your life so long as you stay in your lane.

My girlfriend (fairly new, 8 months in) has a transgender friend. This friend is one ugly piece of shit and I know my girlfriend isn't tapping them.

But, this asshole has been cought by me twice sending pictures of their dick to my girl. It's always pinned down as innocent like "one of the girls" would do, i.e a bath selfie or whatever. But it aint cool with me, and at the moment I'm being made out to be too touchy about it.

Am I being too touchy about it?
I mean I have no fear she'd sleep with them, this person was ugly as a dude but even uglier as a transgender woman so it's really no threat to me. But I'm still pissed off about it.

If any other guy sent my girl a picture of their dick I'd probably punch them.

Advise ladies and gents?

 

If that bothers you then put your foot down and let her know. She should respect how you feel no matter what and same goes for you. If she doesn't want to respect you and have him stop this then I would see that as a red flag and just move on.

As far as the ugly thing goes... Looks aren't everything. I've seen some really ugly mfs get with some fine ass women lol. I also wouldn't trust any dude with my girl unless I knew for a fact they were homosexual.

 

Its not an issue of trust. I trust my girlfriend wouldn't sleep with anyone else. My issue is the guy/girl who thinks it's okay to send that shit.

I've told my girlfriend it's an issue for me, but she passes it off as a 'girl thing' - as in she sees this man/woman as a woman, but I see him as a guy with a dick that plays dress up and sends my girlfriend inappropriate shit.

 

@ironmangang yeah bro I would talk to her again and tell her its a problem and that you don't want him sending that anymore. None of that is ok at all. She shouldn't be ok with that either imo. Either way what her friend is doing is wrong so don't feel guilty about telling her anything.

 

The medical term is "gender dysphoria" and I believe it's categorized as a mental illness. Do with that information what you will.

 

Start getting some pussy pics sent your way, she’ll act right then

 

Do the same with other woman and she will find out it's not cool.

 

It's a matter of respect and principles

Me and my wife know a guy who's 20ish (in the 20's like 26?) and hasn't literally touched a female lifeform yet, and he will sometimes get into these funny calls when they chat on the phone (we also know the guys mum, we grew up around her so nothing to worry about) about like sex things he has seen/heard and such

Like he'll say oh have you two done this, or oh have you two heard of that? And we're like bro, you haven't even done anything let alone know what it is yourself and he acts like some real big shot and it's funny as hell.

You need to consider it as a joke, but if it makes you feel uncomfortable to the point you feel disrespected by it and such you need to mention it. If you're not mentioning it because "you do not see him/it as a threat" then that's not the right move. Looks are not everything, a lot of women go for personality the same as a lot of men will go for a less slimmer women over a slim women in a lot of cases equally.

She needs to respect you have certain needs and desires etc like anyone else as do you her.

 

Send the transgender person ur dickpic and tell ur gf "oh its girl thing, your friend wanted to see since i seen theirs!

 

Hi @ironmangang

Do either one of these two:

1. If you care about her, discuss conditions in your relationship with her. talk about boundaries. if she thinks that she isn't crossing boundaries by having an open attitude to other people sending her dickpics, then you tell her that you also don't consider it cheating if you start dating other girls. Ask her if she wants you to do this? She obviously doesn't care about your boundaries if she continues with this stuff, so why would you care about hers?

2. dump your gf, if she does this type of crap, she sounds like a headache and an attention seeker. 8 month is still young. Find yourself something better youngman

 

First,

It can’t be a girl thing if the dudes showing his penis. Why? Because girls don’t have male genitalia.

What I would do is explain to her that you just don’t want any person sending her nudity period. A normal person would be considerate of what their significant other feels. If not then maybe you need to break it off. Plenty of fish in the sea, you just need to find the one with your ideals.

Ain’t nothing wrong with you asking for something very easy to accomplish.