Is this normal?

[crazy cj]

oh well i've been really upset lately because my aunt died on Christmas eve last year and i just cant stop crying atm its late at night an during the day iam ok but onces it late at night i get upset an can't stop thinking about it is this normal to be like this?

 

[Im not invisible]

if you miss someone is fine to cry for them,

but you also have to know when to let go, thats the hardest part.

 

[crazy cj]

yea well she was always looking after me when i was a baby and my mum couldn't so yea shes like my mum in so many ways but i didnt see her every day and she wanted to live a normal life but smoking wrecked that.....

 

[so_unholy]

Yeh my grandad has been looking after me since i was born with my mum and dad and now my grandad has heart problems it worries be evrynite cause when your about to go bed you start to think about things to put you asleep but you end up thinking of your grandad/aunt cause its on ur mind

 

[eias]

It looks way over normal,i mean if my granny died i'd perhaps cry like 3 or 4 days like your condition but that's it,i will get over it later.

 

[Terrankiller]

I don't cry. Is that normal?

 

[Ermky]

I don't cry. Is that normal?

Since you're a robot... It's utterly normal. Don't worry.


Crazy cj, It's normal. Nothing to be worried about.

 

[xltr1plx]

dog man losin ya grand parent or any family relative is a solid no joke.that hurts to da fullest and i understand what u are goin through cuz i have lost a close 1 to me.i didnt sleep for 3days didnt eat for 8 days and blew holes in throuhg my wall wit my paintball.that wasnt the hardest part. the hardest part was realizing the fact that she isnt going to come back.i worked my wary towards that day for about 2 months.but now im livin life like it was before.wen time comes it will be u writting this post and not that 1 that started this topic.take good care =\

 

[crazy cj]

iam fine thought all of the year but just got sad this time of year cause its around the day she died so yea thats the reason why iam asking this question...

 

[juvenilepunk]

Its normal to feal upset and cry about her
but eventually youll get over it

 

[Shawn_]

It's normal. Don't beat yourself up over it!

 

[scubasteeeve69me]

aww, sorry for ur loss bro i feel ur pain... my grandpa, cousin, friend and dog all died within ONE month........:'( that was about 6 months ago... ive been havin a tough time and now things are starting to get better for me, i hope things get better for u!

p.s.- i never cry during the day either, only when im in bed and everyone thinks im sleeping, i HATE crying in front of ppl, its awquard

 

[crazy cj]

aww, sorry for ur loss bro i feel ur pain... my grandpa, cousin, friend and dog all died within ONE month........:'( that was about 6 months ago... ive been havin a tough time and now things are starting to get better for me, i hope things get better for u!

p.s.- i never cry during the day either, only when im in bed and everyone thinks im sleeping, i HATE crying in front of ppl, its awquard

crying in front of ppl takes a lot of guts so a real man cryz when ever he feels like hes going to an just lets it out tbh i started crying in my maths class once cause my baby sis was in hospital all my teacher did was ask whats wrong an give me a form to go to the toilet to wash my face......

 

[Shadowed_Eye]

A death in my family occured the same as yours, for some reason i didnt cry, and i kind of got over it the next day

 

[0wnedwithgaxe]

Sorry for Your loss. Death is a part of life, it's hard to get over it, but You will, eventually.
Best of luck.

 

[CeFazon]

yes, it's normal. dun worry u'll get over with it soon.

 

[black friday]

its normal dont worry

 

[Krypton6]

I think that people dont want to show fear and weakness in front of other people, and that is why most people dont cry in front of others.

Crazy Cj: When ever your about to cry be a man and keep those tears inside.
Compare your own sittuation to those kids taking care of their sick mothers and fathers in Africa or any other poor country, that should help you keep those tears inside.

When ever I am about to cry for whatever reason it may be, I think about my cousin who is as old as me, but yet takes care of his mother, little sister and brother after having lost his father in front of his eyes.
And plus he lives in one of the worlds most poor and dangerous places, so who the fuck am I to cry over what ever reason it may be, knowing that so many people have it worse than me.

Good luck my friend.

 

[Swan]

I don't cry. Is that normal?

I don't cry either.

Its normal for normal people. In my case, I'm not normal. Anyway, you will(should) get over it. Find something to vent on mate.

 

[gaytime]

u should get over it soon.