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So there's a girl I'm acquainted with that I've been talking to on and off for the past 7 months. She's been dating this one guy on and off, and is going through a break-up currently with him right now. However, they're not fully broken up, and she's already telling me that she wants to go on a date and get to know me outside of how we're acquainted... She's asked me if she asked to kiss would I go in for it, etc. I'm in between as I like her as well, but don't want to be that guy that moves in before the relationship is fully over. Yet at the same time, I don't want to miss out on something that could be great. What should I do? We both definitely like each other, have been talking for the past 4 days for hours at night... I'm just at a loss for what I should do. I don't really know her boyfriend besides from meeting him beforehand at a couple of events that me and her have worked on. Totally flustered, and just don't want to mess anything up.
 
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Don't be the rebound.
 
Don't do shit.
Don't even hangout with her. Feel free to keep texting her though.

If they don't break up, you're gonna get hurt.
The fact that you guys text a lot at night doesn't mean much.
 
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I'm sure you already know all the possible outcomes. Been in a similar situation and it didn't turn out well, but the girl wasn't a good choice to begin with. Hope it works out for you. Post updates :)
 
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I'm with the other guys. Don't be the rebound.

Keep in contact with her if you want and see if her previous relationship ends, but don't go too far in until you're certain she's not attracted to you as a replacement for what she had just lost before because that almost never works out.
 
Like Roary said, dont be the rebound. If you really like this girl let her know to either leave the other guy for sure or to stop talking to you.
 
Communication is key.
Tell her how you feel, and maybe she'll break up with him so she can have you.
I wouldn't say you're exactly a rebound, maybe she just has more feelings for you, than she does him.

Good luck!
 
Hey Guys, I'm bakdip, figure I'd post an update. Her boyfriend and her are done, and we're talking, going out on small dates, I told her how I felt about not wanting to be the rebound, and she's assuring me I won't be. I just don't want to be hurt, because I'm at the stage where I treasure her as a friend and don't want to lose her as a friend if shit goes south.
Told her to give it 2 weeks, (Next Wednesday) and then we'll talk again. I really like this girl, we literally are best friends, and love doing all of the same stuff, never had a girl that enjoyed hunting, fishing, parties, and gaming like me. I just don't want to lose her as a friend, because it'd definitely hurt if it didn't work out and I lost her.
What should I do now? Is 2 weeks long enough? This shit is stressful as hell.
Thank-you to everyone that has responded so far.
 
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