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[Lean]

Just live your life man, don't get too attached. You're young and there's plenty of other fish in the sea even if it may not seem like it at the moment. Trust me there's always other girls out there. Once you get in another relationship or start spending time with other girls you'll eventually either forget about her or still think about her but not care anymore. If it's meant to be then it will work. If you keep breaking up then you're really just wasting your time being stuck on her.

 

[Xier0]

Sounds like FWB or open. Ask for clarification to make sure you're on the same page and you are fine with it.

She wants to play around and experiment. She probably feels really restricted by you. From the way she describes it, it seems like you're the type thats always thinking of the future and not living the now.

Honestly, just feels like she wants to break up but I dont know all the details

Basically no strings attatched. She's not only committed to you.

Sounds like you spoiled her and friend-zoned yourself after you got into a relationship.

School just started up and she wants to explore other options, not to bring you down but you were most likely a summer attraction and now she has a lot more possibilities which you also now have.

I feel the opposite of the people I quoted. Her asking for your relationship to be "fun and carefree" is definitely a lot different than being FWB or in an open relationship. From what you described, she might feel that you are pressuring her too much to get in a serious relationship/get married. 19 is wayyyyy too young (IMO) to be considering a serious relationship. At 19 years old, she's probably either just moving out from her parents or still living with them, doesn't have a job, or works part time, she can't even go to a bar (at least where I live), she's barely even had the opportunity to experience life outside of highschool yet.

 

[pur3bloody]

I feel the opposite of the people I quoted. Her asking for your relationship to be "fun and carefree" is definitely a lot different than being FWB or in an open relationship. From what you described, she might feel that you are pressuring her too much to get in a serious relationship/get married. 19 is wayyyyy too young (IMO) to be considering a serious relationship. At 19 years old, she's probably either just moving out from her parents or still living with them, doesn't have a job, or works part time, she can't even go to a bar (at least where I live), she's barely even had the opportunity to experience life outside of highschool yet.

Yeah, that's basically what it was, from what I gathered. I broke up with her 3 times when we were dating, each time I gave her another chance because she asked. This time she broke up with me, I wanted another chance because now I knew what she wanted, (what you described above) and I was going to change, but she wouldn't give me another chance, she said she could never see us settling down one day and she can't picture me being part of her family, she said she's done for good.

 

[krutoi]

Yeah, that's basically what it was, from what I gathered. I broke up with her 3 times when we were dating, each time I gave her another chance because she asked. This time she broke up with me, I wanted another chance because now I knew what she wanted, (what you described above) and I was going to change, but she wouldn't give me another chance, she said she could never see us settling down one day and she can't picture me being part of her family, she said she's done for good.

You sir have had a bad girlfriend and by the way you tape I think you both were similar (i will ride this bitch) and so on.. I don't know how to help you, just talk to her maybe, and if she doesn't wants to, then live and you will eventually have another girlfriend. Good luck