Need help

[tehRonskie]

So I really liked this girl and she's 5 years older than me, I wanted to meet up with her when I turn 18 (She lives in LA with her brother and sister, their parents live in their hometown as her sister got talent in singing so they lived their to improve their talent). I'm kinda afraid that she'll get bored to me anyway because she lives in LA and you know there are lots of people there who can be her friend or what ever.

I can't really sleep that well, I kept on thinking about her, I know that just a few more years till I turn 18, I knew her since 2010 because of their cover of Brick by Boring Brick. So they moved to LA like Late 2012-Early 2013 as her sister was seen in TV (The Voice) but I can't really tell you guys her name but no body probably cares right.

She used to go to clubs every night but suddenly she stopped doing that, it made me a bit happy.

So again, I can't really sleep well, I always think of her and I mostly get to sleep like 11 PM - 1 AM and I know that's stupid because I have school in the morning. I can't really wait for the future, should I just forget her and not really forget her but should I avoid overthinking of her too much?

Some of you guys might know me as I posted a recent thread on this section about her. Justin Fag, you know me.

What should I do? She really inspired me a lot.

 

To start off with the first question that comes to mind is is the feeling mutual between you two? I would usually say that long distance relationships or especially relationships where there is significant space between when you can see them next is usually not going to work. There are circumstances though that may make it work but usually the former.

What kind of history do you two have? Have you known each other for a very long time are you still reasonably fresh? At one point in my life I like the girl that had to move away as well and unfortunately things didn't work. We grew apart and in the end it ended up being for the better.

I know it might be hurt right now man but things will get better especially with time. Just ride it out.

 

[S]

How well do you know her/does she know you? Have you actually spent time with her, or is more so that you want to, but haven't yet?

Need more details to provide appropriate opinionated advice I'm afraid.

 

[Tornstol]

I'm in the same boat bud and it hurts like hell especially when you're far away from her or she doesn't even know you.

 

[tehRonskie]

How well do you know her/does she know you? Have you actually spent time with her, or is more so that you want to, but haven't yet?

Need more details to provide appropriate opinionated advice I'm afraid.

Well, we haven't met yet. But we've Skype twice back in 2011 and she laughed her ass off because I look like a kid that time. Younger.

She knows me well, I know her well too. But this time, I think she's ignoring me since or was she just busy? She even knows about me more than my mates at school. We used to talk a lot back then.

I can't even believe that time when her sister was seen on TV (The Voice), he even sent me a message about it back in 2012.

 

[tehRonskie]

I'm in the same boat bud and it hurts like hell especially when you're far away from her or she doesn't even know you.

True dat especially when she almost forget about you and you can't tell her what you feel about her.

 

[S]

Well, we haven't met yet. But we've Skype twice back in 2011 and she laughed her ass off because I look like a kid that time. Younger.

She knows me well, I know her well too. But this time, I think she's ignoring me since or was she just busy? She even knows about me more than my mates at school. We used to talk a lot back then.

I can't even believe that time when her sister was seen on TV (The Voice), he even sent me a message about it back in 2012.

Seems like an infatuation opposed to anything else. Also doesn't seem healthy. If you had some sort of foundation built up, and then she moved away, it may have worked. The fact that you haven't met up, and that you have no foundation is honestly and realistically telling you something.

I.e, if you were together for a few months/years, and then she moved away, I could see a long distance relationship working.

I'll be blunt, you need to pull your head out of the clouds. There are plenty more fish in the sea. Move on.

 

[tehRonskie]

Seems like an infatuation opposed to anything else. Also doesn't seem healthy. If you had some sort of foundation built up, and then she moved away, it may have worked. The fact that you haven't met up, and that you have no foundation is honestly and realistically telling you something.

I.e, if you were together for a few months/years, and then she moved away, I could see a long distance relationship working.

I'll be blunt, you need to pull your head out of the clouds. There are plenty more fish in the sea. Move on.

Hmm,

I guess I should probably try to forget her for a while and then after a few years, who knows? We might even see each other in person because I think this isn't healthy as I can't keep thinking of her every day for a few years till I turn 18.

I'll give it a try though.