This girl

[W77]

So there's a really hot girl that I started going after a few days ago.

I had only talked her a few times, but I asked if she would like to go out sometime. Needless to say, were going out sometime next week with my friend and his girl.
Only thing is she's one of the really popular girls, and she has guys hitting on her ALL the time. (I apparently have something going for me xD) But it definitely shows. It's almost like she expects all of this stuff. (I feel like I'd be the only one putting effort into this relationship.)
And she also really sucks at replying to messages. (She doesn't just do it to me - but she does it a lot.)
What do you guys think I should do?

& after we go bowling if I do officially ask if her out, should I do it that day or wait? (I've only talked to her like three times xD)

Thanks guys

 

[woodcut ox]

You gotta pay to play like a big boy.

If you want her bad enough you'll do anything.

Also if she's constantly getting hit on it might be a good idea to try for the couple thing.

 

[fball56]

Depends what you are willing to put up with. I would hate someone who just expects stuff like it sounds like she does. She seems to know she is good looking and popular and is using it.

 

[W77]

^fball you are exactly correct. That's why I'm on the fence.

 

In my personal experience you'll hate her if you go out with her. Yes she's hot, but it sounds like she will be a complete bitch if you start dating.

If I were you I'd just do what I have to in order to have sex with her and that's it, a relationship will suck for you and likely end badly anyway.

 

[W77]

I was almost thinking the same. We'll see how bowling goes, aye?

But yeah if she does start acting like that (which there's a good chance she will) I have no intention of putting up with it.

 

[BeeVer]

Yeah, she doesn't sound like the relationship type. It can't be a one way thing. The feelings need to be mutual, you can't be the only one putting in effort.

 

[W77]

^ Yup. There's still a chance I could be wrong. Maybe she doesn't like messaging, who knows.
I guess we'll see how things go, it just might not be 'till the weekend after next. (She's on vacation.) Dayum, that's double exp weekend too xD

 

[Lean]

just be yourself, if it doesnt work out then it wast meant to if you cant be yourself around some one whats the point.

 

[Spraynwipe]

Don't ever be with anyone who expects you to do all the work. It's called a relationship, not slavery. Have self respect and don't message her if she's not responding, she's either not interested or thinking of other things. The most you can do is go out with her, be honest and true to yourself and entertain her. If you are comfortable at the end of the night, then ask her out "officially". If not, then give her a hug and just say you'll do something with her again soon. There isn't point sticking around for her if she wants you to just flatter her the whole time, and it ends up with you being a desperate mess. Either way best of luck to you