Need Advice

[SwiftFoxR]

I'll keep it simple.

Girl thinks she isn't hot, I tell her she is. (I truthfully do think she is). Then she all of a sudden says that being hot means nothing, and that a guy should say a girl is beautiful.

I've told her that she was beautiful a couple times before this (again, truthfully), but now that she's said that, I'm worried I can't say it anymore without her thinking that I'm feeling obligated to do so.

idk. halp pls

 

[mtn dew]

Try asking her on a date and make her feel the way she wants and the way you think she truly is. Actions speak louder than words.

 

[Meisei]

Call her beautiful constantly if she says that you're only saying it because she told you to, then relpy with a simple, "since when do you tell me what to do?" you know a smart reply, to atleast keep her smiling and laughing

 

[dangelo]

Tell her she is "hot" when you look at her but truly beautiful on the inside. Sure fire way to win her heart.

 

[<3☻]

Lol be like idc what you think, U honestly think shes beautiful, regardless of wether she thinks your saying it because you're obligated too.

 

[soonrfan84]

Call her beautiful constantly if she says that you're only saying it because she told you to, then relpy with a simple, "since when do you tell me what to do?" you know a smart reply, to atleast keep her smiling and laughing

Don't do this.

Take her out to dinner and tell her you want to dress up for it. When she dresses up and you're at dinner, grab her hand and say she looks beautiful.

 

[Snatchmasta]

^^
What this guy said.

Or just spontaneously. If you think she's beautiful, just blurt it out when you really feel that way. Don't overdo it though. Its a fine line between sweetly corny, and just too forward.

Are you romantically involved with this girl? She sounds kind of manipulative. Be cautious man.

 

[SexayMistahBee]

When you tell a girl that she is "hot" or "sexy," it sounds like you're objectifying her.
To tell you the truth, I think that you're going to ruin the relationship if you ask her out.

You sound like the type of guy who wouldn't have a clue about what he's doing.

 

Honestly girls like that do my head in...
Just tell her she is beautiful if that's what you really think, if she objects to that just say "well you are...". Personally if she objected to it after me telling her several times I'd get annoyed and not talk to her again, but that's just me.