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Post: [Guide] Dealing with bullies.
Forum: Personal Support
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Posted by: Lym
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Dealing with bullies:

It doesn't matter what age you are, you'll always have to deal with bullies in life.
Everyone get's bullied at one time or another and most of the time they don't know how to deal with it.
So know that you're not alone and there are many ways you can solve it, not ALL of them are included in this guide. I will be adding more to this guide as time goes on.
Thanks for reading, and I hope your problems are solved <3

1. For people in school

When you're being pushed around picked on or being annoyed by someone ask them to stop politely once.
If they continue to do it don't let them know that you're being bothered by it and try to ignore it.

If this does not work after a few days/weeks then you can bring it to an adult or someone you trust.
I know that you might be teased about "Snitching" on the bully but it's the right thing to do.
Now a days schools take bullying very seriously, and know how to prevent most of it on school grounds.

I strongly urge you to speak to an adult, but if you do not wish to that's your choice.
What you can do other than that (This is more chaotic)...
You can try playing mind games with them, do some research on this person and ask around to find out about his/her life.
Eventually you'll find the negative things in their life, you must approach them in a very calm manner.
Talk to them about why they do the things they do, while subtley teasing them. This will most likely work if done correctly.

The previous method isn't reccomended .

2. For people at work

If you're being bullied by a co-worker: You can find a way to prove to your boss or whoever deals with hiring and firing people that they're treating you this way.
Then they will most likely get fired.

If you're being bullied by your boss or a manager: you have a few options, the simple way is to quit.
If you're being sexually harassed / treated unfairly you can file a lawsuit against them in most cases.
If you're fired unfairly you can file a lawsuit against them for firing you for no reason.

3. For people at home

If you're being bullied at home by a family member you can

A. Tell a parent or guardian (If it's the other Guardian or a sibling.)
B. Call your local Child help hotline and ask for help.
C. If you're old enough you can move out, or move in with a different relative that's willing.

I hope this guide has helped you, if you have any questions about this feel free to post here and ask or PM me.
I'll respond as soon as I can.

- Lym ♥

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