Girlfriend Problem

[bad_moose]

My girlfriend is really busy with studying and revision and extra GCSE classes after school right now so we can only really see each other at the weekend and sometimes for an hour or so one or two days after school each week. She thinks she's a bad girlfriend because she doesn't see me often or text that often. She's said to me that she thinks that if we go on like this our relationship will fizzle out to nothing and it will end badly. Basically, she wants me to go and see if I can find a better girlfriend and see how I cope without her because she thinks I'm too nice and kind for her when she thinks she's so crap. She said we can get back together at any time. I don't want to find someone else though, and I don't want all the hassle of dealing with people asking me about us 'breaking up'. What do I do? :S

 

[TezzSun]

Just say "its okay, no matter if your gone, your still there in my heart, continue with your goals"

 

[Tha Traina]

keep her, if a girl thinks your too good for her than thats good. SHE likes you alot and she wants you to be happy. Do somethiing really nice for her like send her flowers and take her to dinner and remind her how good she is

 

[333]

Basically, she wants me to go and see if I can find a better girlfriend and see how I cope without her because she thinks I'm too nice and kind for her when she thinks she's so crap.

When someone says this, this might mean she is cheating. From the problem(s) stated she could be cheating on you. Shes also giving you a HALLPASS.. lol

 

[Coinshare]

When someone says this, this might mean she is cheating. From the problem(s) stated she could be cheating on you. Shes also giving you a HALLPASS.. lol

Yeah it can mean she's with another person.
It can also mean she's letting you off easily and hoping you'll agree.
It can mean she wants to take a break with the relationship.

It seems like she wants to focus on her education (If she's not cheating at least) for the moment and if I were you I'd take a break. If you're both sti wanting to get back together, get back together in the Summer?

 

[Awesome Stranger]

Your lucky she isn't to clingy, some girls think they have to be with you almost everyday, trust me I know :3

Just ask her to have a talk with you about your relationship, ask her how she feels about you. Then make your decision.

 

[bad_moose]

I don't think she's cheating, she doesn't have time to. I know for a fact that all the stuff she says she does, she does do.

She's still talking to me on Facebook and texting and she's maintaining that she's going to be there for me until I no longer want her to be so I guess things will be okay.

 

[JstarD]

Tell her that you don't want any one else and that you love her

 

[SummerFun]

When someone says this, this might mean she is cheating. From the problem(s) stated she could be cheating on you. Shes also giving you a HALLPASS.. lol

looool, could be true But honestly if she really does care about you and feels bad that she doesn't get to spend a lot of time with you, that's really sweet of her. I guess she needs to stop stressing out about it so much tbh, like she's busy? It's not a big deal and I'm sure you understand her studying & what not Make sure she knows that & honestly just do the best you can It won't be like this foreverrrr

 

[tamachan]

What do I do? :S

Ask her politely what does she want?

Her own space? and so on.

I doubt she really thinks you're too good for her, That just seems mad suspicious to me.. But either way, If she's a really trustable girl, maybe she wants you to find better happiness.

Just stay with her or keep it low profile.

 

[Gooseberry]

You need to tell her that she's the perfect girl for you.

 

[Elite Botter]

Ditch her end of!! haha

 

[sith kid]

You need to be on clear terms whether or not you really like her. The rest is self-explanatory.

 

[Snow Patrol]

You need to tell her flat out what you want from this relationship. Make up your decision whether or not staying with her is worth your time and stop beating around the bush.