What Do You Guys Think About This

I know I've seen 10+ videos but most were just suiciding off one incident she tried to make a difference by even moving towns, this one got to me the most.

 

This is what I was talking about;

 

Yes, but think of the reason you're there in the first place.

 

I feel bad for her. I dont understand how just because of that, she had ZERO friends. I dont see something like that causing something of that extremity. For one, Im sure not everyone seen or knew about the picture... and two.. even if people did.. people are losing their virginity at younger ages every day... at my school there used to be girls who gave head in the backseat of the bus.. they had plenty of friends too.

I guess maybe it was a self esteem thing.. she felt shot down after that happened and it probably led to alot of social awkwardness... always thinking people were out to get her.. even the ones who werent. Regardless, i feel horrible and think some people are fking azzholes. So she showed her boobs.. theres plenty of guys out there who show off their d*** too to try and impress girls, they dont become the laughingstock of the world so why should she? Poor girl... hope the people who did that to her see that video and live with the shame for the rest of their life.

 

I agree with TV on this one. You can't blame someone else when it is your own fault to begin with honestly. I sympathize with the family and it's sad that it happened, but parenting should come into question here also.

 

When someone's depressed, they hide it. Sometimes it's impossible for even the parents to realise something's wrong. You can't blame the parents, really.

 

Im surprised this video is so big, I live a few provinces away from her so I thought it was just a western canada thing. And tbh T V you'll know the feeling if one of your loved ones or child commits suicide, I have no experience of this, but come on you have to show a bit of respect to her.

 

Are there any proof or evidence that shes dead?

I read the comments on this thread... seems like shes trying to gain attention and to gain video views..

fake

 

Its all over the news in Vancouver, so i hardly doubt it is fake.

 

EXACTLY. A cry for help. I hate when people say it's a cry for attention, of course it is? People want help but they don't know how to ask or who to go to. And yes, she is dead.

 

Her body was found, it was on the news and RCMP are investigating it so I highly doubt it is fake.

 

I do, and honestly, I have to agree with TV too.

Please read my whole post before telling me "ur a sick bazturd!!!", weak-hearts might want to steer away from this realism.

First off - At 12 years old, we as humans are vulnerable to making mistakes. She did that around 2008 maybe? Back when I was still in high-school, I knew of prego chicks in middle school, and girls getting abortions. That's how bad it was then, I can only imagine how horrible it must be with all this newest wave of the trashiest of trashy Tv, music, etc. But you can only feel a little bit of sympathy because while you may feel sorry that she did it, it was certainly no "Mistake"... Come on, we all know she deliberately knew what she was doing, she wasn't initially conned into it, rather just persuaded and she's evidently easily manipulated, and very vulnerable. It was only after that initial act (Seriously, please stop calling it a mistake), that she was trapped in that disgusting pervert's little web. That's where I feel sorriest for her, when the guy pretty much stalks her - That part, while it WAS avoidable, well... No one deserves that, no matter what they do... That's just harassment.

Which brings me to my next point, that I think someone already kindly pointed out, where were the police, where were the parents? It seems there wasn't much done about the situation, almost like they were hoping it would disappear... Extortion and harassment isn't something that just disappears, and you would think that there would be a manhunt especially after the pictures were publicized. Even if it took forever to find the culprit, I bet you it would have definitely put a halt in the harassment...

Next, she cheated with a guy that she knew had a girlfriend. I'm not even going to get into this because it's same old song and dance and anyone who has lived a normal life knows the steps. If you're going to do that, prepare to get that ass beat; or skip town. Otherwise - dur, don't do it. This always got me with people who cheat with someone who they think "like them", but has a girlfriend; If he's cheating on his current girlfriend with you, does he sound like a quality person that you really want to be with?? Seriously, that's just a no-brainer, never understood the minds of some people.

To wrap this up though and get more personal, dudes I spent 2 out of my 4 years listening to people talk and flap their jaws. I've seen my sister come home crying so bad sometimes because of it, and you know what the rumors that were going around town were about? Not even either of us, another family member of ours - and that's just a SPEC of the shit I had to deal with in high-school (It was 2/4 years because I had to transfer to an alternative school for the remaining 2 years, see I just couldn't take it anymore). I've been down, I've wanted to die, I've tried to die, I've been higher on [I don't even know what all] more than my mind could even take, I've drank myself to sleep countless nights, I've been around abusive parenting, I've been around alcoholic parenting, I've been hated, never had but a few friends (Seriously got 1 friend now who I keep in touch with. ONE, that's not an exaggeration either. And shit maybe the reason we still keep in touch is because he didn't have many friends either). I've been called every name in the book, I've had my last name tarnished around town, but god dammit I'm still fucking alive. And I don't need to make index cards to ease the pain, I don't need anyone to talk to, I'll just pile it on the rest of the shit in the pit of my stomach and eat to cover it up.

My point here, is don't just feel sorry for her... Don't blame everyone else but her... If we do that, there's no lesson to be learned. Someone has lost their life here because of dumb ass acts, avoidable acts... Things that could have been prevented... This isn't a joke and I wish people would wake up and see there is more to this than just a feeling of sympathy. But I promise you we're all going to continue faltering, listening to the shit we listen to, watching the shit we watch, taking what we want to take, drinking what we want. It's a vicious cycle. And you know what, sometimes I still do lay awake at night just wondering if this trip is worth the ride.

Edit: Of course I feel sorry that she was driven to do such a thing, I'm sorry that her soul couldn't survive in this mean world (And I'm really not being a jackass, I mean it sincerely), but as someone who has watched people destroy their lives in the same ways and to see people go to major extremes, you can't always blame everyone else BUT them... To a HUGE extent, they're in control. It's a tough situation, but at the same time you have to hold account to what led to it.

 

I completely agree with you I looked further in and I managed to find 3-4 pictures of her topless making it not a mistake. She did cheat I edited out the tits in the picture so you guys can see it wasn't a "mistake" 100% agree with you on this one and it is always good to find someone with personal experience.

 

You know what's worse? After her death, people are still posting hate messages on her RIP Facebook page. Look: http://www.thestar.com/news/canada/...-memorial-pages-targeted-by-negative-messages

 

I completely change my perspective on this. People interviewed not the bullies from the school but kind of the bistanders (neutral). They stated that she wasn't nice to anyone so no one was nice to her, except for a few people. They also stated that 80% of this video isn't true or is blown up a lot, she never went into a ditch and there wasn't 16 people that were there when she got beat up there was four. They also stated that she never drank bleach.

The posters want to stay anonymous because they don't want a whole bunch of people giving them threats because they don't know the whole story.

 

i agree with this.

plus i think its a pretty fucked up situation but as others are saying, i guess it kind of is her fault

 

What about the bunch of people that didn't make a mistake and just got bullied i general? Where's the sympathy for them. As long as the videos go viral everyone get's emotional and brings the subject up really much, If its in the article of a new's paper most people are like whatever or its just something that gets brought up one time. Of course i do feel sorry for her but i also feel sorry for every other person that commits suicide without making a mistake in the first place.

 

I fell like the parents should have been more involved in some way, the world is wrong and have so many screwed up people who choose to ruin other peoples lifes aswell as there own!

 

I've read her story, and how much exaggeration shes put into it.
Also since you know me so fucking well to say that i'm disgusting, how about you tell me how i felt when people bullied me as a child for being a different colour to them? or being physically assaulted for no apparent reason?
Yeah mate, you don't know what i've been through either ha.

 

Well, I'd never condone that at all, and I knew a couple of people who've actually succumbed long ago due to that... But anyway, that doesn't really hold much water for this topic; and she definitely wouldn't/shouldn't be a representative or spokeswoman for bullying. You bring about what you bring on, end of story.