Confused

I am going to try to explain my situation the best I can. Bear with me if it is not completely understandable.

About myself:
I am now a Freshman in High School. I have had several girls have called me attractive, I can hear them talking about me sometimes, etc. If individual people pm me I can send them a picture showing somewhat who I look like


When I was in 5th grade, I started to like this girl in my class. I continued to like her for several years, until she finally noticed me and started talking to me. (About 7th grade). In 8th grade, she got a boyfriend, but recently broke up with him. I still kind of like her I guess.

At the beginning of freshman year, another girl moved to our town. Halfway through the year, we met and began talking. She has another really good friend who happens to be a guy, but they have been friends for 8 or 9 months, so I doubt that they will start going out if they haven't already. I would say I am her next best guy friend. She just hugs me out of the blue sometimes which makes me a bit confused :huh: . She is also really good friends with the first girl I talked about.

A few weeks ago, there was sort of like a school organized party. It was sort of like a camp party right outside the school I guess. Anyhow, I ended up in a tent with a few of my sophomore friends and a couple of sophomore girls.
The other day I found out that one of the girls I had hung out with thought I was "soo cute" and nice + fun. This girl's sister, a senior had begun saying hi to me in the halls a few weeks ago.

All 3 of these girls (4 if you include the senior) are really attractive :embar: (Like I'm not the only one that thinks so.)

If any of you read all of this thank you. I am not really sure what to do/think of myself. Any comments would be greatly appreciated.

 

Im not entirely sure what kind of advice you are looking for, how to approach women for example. Or just situational advice?

 

Don't do anything, dating in High School is a waste of time. There is a .000001% chance that you will last longer than a year or even wind up being married to them.

It's too much drama & bs, just have fun while you're young. = Be single, it has a lot of benefits when you're in high school. Like right now you have what 4 girls after you compared to if you had a GF it would be 1.

 

Bleu, I was looking for more situational advice.

 

Think of yourself. You shouldn't think of yourself with any negativity whatsoever. You've done nothing wrong, and you've done nothing you should be ashamed of.

As for what you should do, it's arbitrary (at your own discretion).
If your looking to hook up/enter a relationship, then the most obvious choice would be to do so with the girl you like the most.

Given that they are all attractive, this isn't so much of an issue. Who do you find has the best personality? Who do you find has similar interests to you, or you can relate to easily in conversation.

Who do you enjoy hanging out with the most?


If you'd like to go out with one of them, it all really depends on your preference, and answers to the above questions. If your self conscious, don't be in a negative way, as you've done nothing to be ashamed of or anything perceivably wrong.

 

best case senario stay thier friends, a relationship would kill any friendship lol trust meh. and from how ur talking its ganna leave u broken. kid, unless ur entirely ready for anything dnt make a move. i dnt want u to post a thread 2 months later(saying ull last tht long) saying how ur heartbroken and wat not.. love is a bit** at times, gatta learn to accept tht lol

 

Think of it as a choice, you have a choice of 3 girls (probably wouldn't go for the senior if she's just saying hi, she is probably just being friendly.
Talk to them all and get to know them better, flirt with only 1 girl, DO NOT flirt with all of them at the same time. That is if you want to date 1 anyway.

 

Go for the girl you like the most. Don't just base it on looks.. how are their personalities?

 

Yea I know, the senior is leaving really soon anyway. (But I think im the only freshman she says hi to :embar: )

I don't really know the third girl that well, but the first two are both really nice and stuff. I'm not sure about the first one though. I think she just likes me as a friend I guess.

 

Well you have just answered it yourself, go fo the 2nd girl and see how it goes