Girls are confusing. Who agrees?

You guys...know...absolutely NOTHING about girls. Ok, she is quite obviously doing the "String along/friends with benefit" technique. Ok so she just "broke up" with Phillip. Well she was hoping thatd get her some brownie points with you, and make you sympathetic. Then, she'll act like she likes you, but this is only an act...right now. Shes testing how far your go to like her. If you really DO like her, then you HAVE TO SHOW HER! And until you show her how much, shes going to keep saying: "I want to just be friends". Seriously, if your having girl problems, ask a girl! :]! But yeah, morale of the story is, show her, but dont tell her...Just show her (ease it in I guess...but all the pervs will laugh XD) that you like her. :\ Wait, also. With girls you have to be patient...we dont like being forced into stuff. ! Well..hope I helped!

 

you are so awesome...really. but yeah I kind of just stopped talking to her. After this one day, it really felt like she just needed me to get around. She doesn't drive so yeah...It's been like 2 weeks since we've talked, so I guess I won't really be seeing her anymore. I know I could always make time for someone I really care about, but I'm kind of busy to be playing games right now.

oh well...

 

Well if she used you to drive her around...theen..yeah she might not have been testing you. She might justve been a B****..:\

 

I don't like to think she's a bitch. I think all people are good until proven otherwise. I have no proof of it, I just have a gut feeling because she just randomly asked me if I wanted to go eat at 7AM and then right after that she would ask me if I could take her to work.

but yeah...I have no time for guessing games. If you like me, that's cool, tell me. If you don't, that's unfortunate, but oh well....

 

"unfortunate"...lol havent heard that one in a while ! haha sorry...anyways..

O/T: I think its nice you dont jump to conclusions...but normally a gut feeling means its right. :\ and yes III think shes using you. Ive seen that with alot of my ex-friends...ask guys they know are in love with them to do stuff just to get them around. :/ some girls are just mean ): youve got to ask her though. I think that really you should just say this:

If you like me, say yes. If you dont, say no. I dont like games.

Thatll make her give you her answer :] and dont do it over text/phone/FB/etc etc etc..do it in Real Life :}

 

I'll probably do that...eventually lol

 

well eventually is a good thing ;] like i said, girls dont like to be rushed...:\ but I think shes using you..D: sorry, but that just seems like a "friend with benifets" move. :[

 

yeaup. I decided not to talk to her. haven't heard from her for 2 weeks. guess that's goodbye? sucks lol.

 

Man I know how you're feeling. There's this girl that was acting all flirty with me and stuff, I was SURE she liked me. I asked her out, and she said yeah, but poor girl thought it was just to chill and not a date. She still really wanted to hang out, but didn't want to call it a date. Weird

As for your little conundrum, wait it out another couple of days then very subtly say something like "I was thinking if maybe you'd want to go on a date", but a little bit sneakier than that. Make it so that she gets the question, but you can easily recover if she turns you down again to eliminate the awkwardness.

 

dude...I'm really sorry. I can't take anything you just said seriously without loling like crazy. Your sig is just way too much lol

 

lol'd ^^. Anyways, tell me what happens Im really curious to know. :} AND OMMGG!!! I didnt know that 4GIFS was a PORNO SITE! Damnit man, you got porno on my comp D:

 

yeah I'll let you know haha

 

I disagree.
It's not that hard, just dont act like the typical stereotypical un-sensative guy and you'll be fine.

 

you disagree with what????

 

I only...ok this is going to sound weird but actually Id like your opinion on something. If i wrote a guide on how to treat girls (i.e being romantic and all that...) would you read it? And on how to get girls (i.e sending signals and what not)...I actually have taught this to guys in Real Life and theyre now some of the most date-able guys in our school 0.0 haha :] well just comment back please..I really want to, just because of how many guys here have problems with those sort of things..):

 

This is going to make me sound pathetic, but yes, I would read it lol

 

no not pathetic at all! ! Thanks. Ill start working on it A.S.A.P. I like helping guys out, you see. Im tired of not being able to find a decent guy. Theyre all wanna be thugs.

 

haha, just posted it :]

 

Girls think guys are confusing and guys think girls are confusing. Usually I combat that by getting into lengthy conversations where i make sure she asks everything on her mind and gets rid of the confusion.

Another thing, I wouldn't tell her you like her until you're sure that shes 100% into you. Then, you can work your way around her emotions and sort of use them against her (in a good way)to help build a relationship, if that makes sense...

otherwise youll be stuck as her friend forever...

 

I dont think guys are confusing. Except, do guys get boners when they pee? Always wondered that