How to find gf?

I'm having the odd feeling that this is a troll thread, but in case it isn't here i'll play ball.

- A lot of girls are not actually attracted to wealth, as much as wealth is good and can buy things they also desire attention as well as many other things, and also things like stability in a relationship if they was to get into one along with confidence.

You need to understand yourself, and understand how a girl works. If a guy is a 10 and you're a 5, does that mean only 10 guys should be rewarded 10 girls? of course not.

 

Do not find love on tinder or anything. It just should happen naturally, if it happens naturally the longer it will last!

 

I didn't take the time to read through everything other than the original post. But you honestly shouldn't be trying to force relationships as it is. Not everyone cares about how much your watch is or the car you drive. Most people care about who you are as a person and not what you have in materials. If they do care about what you have in materials then they're with you for the wrong reasons anyway. Don't try and force anything and eventually the right thing will come to you.

 

Be yourself, the right girl will wind up into your life.

 

I usually find people on Facebook. I just try to be friends with people, and if there's something there, then it evolves past friendship..

Granted, I haven't dated in about 6 years and the only thing I know about tinder is that its a hookup app on your phone.. But I'm seeing so many people suggest it, that maybe it's more than just a meet-n-fuck service now. If that's still the aim though, I wouldn't suggest it... Relationships built on sex are nice, they burn PASSIONATELY... but from my experiences, they also burn fast and go out within a few months..

But again, my thoughts and opinions are probably lost to time by now... The last time I tried to pick up a girl she told me to add her on snapchat and we'd go from there; idk wtf a snapchat is and idc.

 

Girls love to laugh. If you have a beard / few tattoos / thick but not fat. You will have ages 20-60 crawling all over you. Sadly i'm taken for 5 years so I cannot pursue.

 

Tinder or Bumble are literally godsends. Make good use of them.

 

Dating apps seem to be the way of the future, All most everyone i know is on tinder

 

Go outside.

 

It’s not like pokemon where you just go catch whatever you want.
Mutual friends is imo the best way to find a gf. Find common grounds (like mutual friends or interest) that way you’ll have something to talk about, then just take it from there. I’ve never been into tinder and online dating personally. Just be yourself and don’t overcommit and you’re good.

 

Just like farming in RS

 

Go on tinder

 

Tinder or happen might be your answer

 

Honestly, I would say stay away from tinder. It gets you used to not having real dialogue. If you have low confidence, find some friends that have a lot of confidence that will force you to be in large social situations. Watch what they do and how they are successful with women and then copy it but add your own style. Also, dont expect every girl you talk to be a girlfriend candidate. Use them for practice

 

I personally wouldn't use Tinder to find a girlfriend, thats only asking for trouble, but for a one night stand yeah sure.

Girls like men who are confident, secure, funny. If you can make a girl constantly laugh at your jokes, you have a much better chance. I had a mate who was a good looking guy, and hes advice for picking up girls was "dont be afraid to get rejected". He used to pick up girls everytime we would go to night clubs (he was one of those kind of guys).

•Dont be afraid to get rejected, its perfectly normal
•Dont be that nice guy, it's boring and no girls like it (know the limits)
•Make them laugh, always try to be funny.
•boost your self confidence, take care of yourself, consider going to gym.

 

Enjoy life, find what you are passionate about and get out there and live life. When you are at this point, along the road you will meet someone.

When it happens naturally, and when you just be yourself and don't try and be someone you are not, then you will find a lasting girlfriend.

Live like a Stoic. Dont get disheartened by rejection, be a good person and it will happen.