My brother

My brother gets stupidly angry at himself or at stuff that doesn't work and starts smashing his or someone elses crap, (broke my 2nd monitor he was using for his PC) and also put mutliple holes the wall.
If something goes wrong with computer he was results to fucking smashing shit.
I am completely over it, if my dads home, i am the only one who can force him from leaving and doing more stupid shit, as my mum is powerless.

I am over his shit, I am about to punch him again in the face (Which was completely wrong of me....)
Why fucking break shit, money isn't a ultimate resource, he throws his phone like it's piece of paper, when he on a plan of $100 something dollars a month.....

 

Does he have ADHD?

either way you should take him to see a psychiatrist

 

I'd recommend Anger management classes

 

I can tell you from experience with my brother that you can't beat the aggression out of someone. It sounds like you also have a shitty inconsiderate and immature brother, I'd recommend talking to your parents first and see if they can deal with it, and then seeking outside help. It'd be easier to give advice if we knew how old you guys were.

 

Parents try to help but can't do anything, and in australia you can't force anyone to do Angry Management classes. it's bad for me to let out my aggression and i know that, but idk what to do now. i have extreme respect towards my parents, but he doesn't give 2 shits about them and, to answer @Wintastical I am 18, he is 17.

 

You're in the exact same situation I'm in one thread down from here. The conclusion I've reached is that I'm moving back out and not letting it affect my happiness anymore. Hopefully our parents will eventually realize the mistakes they're making by allowing this kinda stuff to happen, but until then there's nothing we can do to help them. Live your life, intervene when necessary, but ultimately know that the solution is in your parents' hands; they have to cut him off until he learns to respect and appreciate them for what they do for him.

 

Just so frustrated, how can he not show any respect, legit,i want to move, but shitty maccas job is holding me back

 

Idk what else to say other than maybe sitting him down and ask him what gets him frustrated. If it's a game, maybe play the game with him? I know with my brother whenever he gets too into a game he will start raging but as soon as I start playing him, he calms down and we even have some fun. Goodluck and hopefully you can work this out

 

A punch sounds like a quick and effective idea. And tell your mom to stop spoiling him before it's to late.

 

As stated before you can't beat aggression out of someone so honestly hitting him will solve nothing. It seems as if he is portraying bipolar tendencies, and unfortunately the only thing that can help him is medicine. If it is just basic anger issues honestly the only way to get him to change his ways are to make him realize that not everything is free. Therefore your parents have to actually be the ones to cut him off, I am going through a similar situation with my older brother atm. I major in psych and happen to know my brother has schizoaffective disorder so it is a bit different. You need to either cut him off and move on or convince your parents that they have to show that there isn't shit free in this life.

 

I disagree in this case of a spoiled child. He needs discipline and to be responsible for his actions rather than being told its not his fault and he needs medicine.

 

jsut rock him man teach him a leasson he need to learn somthing

 

btw, i am not a violent person, i just get angry over a long period period, (takes me about 6-12 months before i'll get annoyed and get violent)

 

Nothing wrong with that. I'd think less of you if you DIDN'T eventually snap on someone like that. We all have our breaking point. Don't feel guilty about it

 

To be honest, you need to sit him down and have a straight up talk with him about possible consequences from his actions in the real world. (His parents arent going to always be there to hold his hand, if he continues to break everything will wind up having nothing, etc)

 

Take him to a psychiatrist/doctor and get him on medication

 

Now he's spoiled and addicted to xanax.

 

Or the medication will help him focus and make more rational decisions. Impossible to tell

 

Get rid of that DNT trade on sythe and move out after you make enough

That way you'll be less affected by his actions, and without you home your parents will realise he's being a brat and do something about it!

 

Yeah, as soon as my DnT goes, going start couple businesses, got a couple services i can do.