Would you let your boyfriend or girlfriend do this?

I've been in a few year relationship and no matter how much love you have you always wonder how other people might be. Especially after having the same person 1,000+ times. Women are no exception to this curiosity.

I believe that when it's suppressed it causes people to be sly about fulfilling these fantasies instea of being open with their partners.

I honestly believe people are just used to monogamous relationships being the "right" way to do things.

 

I would say I gained my experience whilst single, then when I wanted a serious relationship I treat it as a serious relationship. I have no inkling to wonder what other women are like.

It's not that it is suppressed, it's just that consequences are guaranteed if so. For example, I wouldn't stop my partner going out or on holiday with her friends because of the fear of her meeting someone else. However, her engaging in sexual intercourse with someone else is completely different. I wouldn't stop it, I would just leave upon finding out. That's not suppression.

I also don't believe so, I wouldn't say my relationship is conventional and follows a certain path laid out as it should be. However, it works for us. If whatever works for a couple be it having an open-relationship then so be it, there is no "right way" there's just the way that suits you and your partner.

 

Soryr everyone i meant with mutua consent. Me and my boyfriend talked ab having a three some but i find it hot if he fucks someone else. Plus each of us think about sex outside of relationships. Also it will curve habitations. Also hes down with it to. It virtually eliminates cheating.

 

Nope, not happening. I could possibly somewhat understand if the couple just met and doesn't have feelings for each other.
In my own personal opinion; if either person out of the relationship actually cares for the other, they wouldn't want to engage in any other sexual activity what so ever with someone else.
Looking is fine, just don't touch!

 

no fucking way. I honestly believe if you do this you obviously don't truly love them

 

Remember love is not selfish. However, hate is.

 

So you're saying that unless two people in a relationship agree that they can have an open relationship to a certain extent that they will cheat on each other?

That's close minded since not everyone is wired that way

 

no way, you stay with that person, because you want them to be yours, not everyones.

 

Nope, sorry. I couldn't even imagine my girlfriend having sex with another guy whilst I'm still with her. I'm faithful and so is she.

 

That would undermine the exclusivity of the relationship. Definitely no.

 

Never, I wouldn't be able to handle it because I'm the jealous type!

 

Not cheat, but have the desire to experience other things. And not everyone, but most people. Especially men.

I also think that if they say they don't have fantasies/think about other experiences that they are lying to be accepted by their loved ones or actually are that slim percentage of people who don't.
Men and women are both susceptible to Their natural/carnal desires and anyone who says They're above those natural wirings is ignorant as fuck.

I also believe that probably 75% or more of the responders to this thread are hypocrites and would cheat f they had the opportunity to and especially if they knew their significant other would not find out. They are hypocrites because they would act on that opportunity but want the control over their woman to not do The same or use politer terms like asking for the "same" respect.

In the end, these are just my opinions and views of man and carnal nature. No one needs to get offended but if you are you should consider coming to terms with who you really are as a Carnal animal because this is where your folly lay.

 

Self control is a thing.

 

I wouldn't be able to without wanting to kill the other person personally.

 

Uhm I can't even take you seriously.

Those are your opinions, yet it seems like your're forcing it upon every other human.
"Come to terms with you really are as a carnal animal". Like really? So you're saying essentially that we all have the urge to kill, but we haven't accepted it? Those are your views, but you don't hesitate to call majority of commenters "hypocrites"?

If majority of us do not enjoy or even participate in 3-somes, then exactly who are you to question what our sexual preferences are? Just because we don't accept it for our lifestyle, doesn't mean we're denying you and those who wish to live by that lifestyle, to live that way.. That is as open-minded as anything. It's not like anyone here has said 'no and I would kill anyone in the world that does do that'.

How is anyone "ignorant as fu*k", if they are morally, religiously, simply wouldnt in a defined relationship, against doing those actions in their own lives. Key words, their own lives. People have self control, beliefs that differ with those actions.

I am 100% above "carnal desires", I know this. How do I know this?, because then survival of the fittest and I'd be trying to kill others if I wasn't. I 100% would not be involved in more than just myself and my partner, because to me and to many others it is just like cheating. Which is wrong to many of us.

If we don't accept it for ourselves please don't sit there and say we need to accept it otherwise we're all hypocrites. Have you ever been cheated on, do you know the feeling? It normally involves more then the couple itself. I can fairly say I would never.

My desires are solely for me and my partner, so don't tell me I need to accept your way of life for mine.

 

I stated that these were my opinions, and not to get offended.

I'm done posting on this thread, I don't really care that much.

 

Hell no wouldn't let her do that.

 

I wouldn't be okay with this at all.

 

no, never. If you wanna fuck around with others go be single and you can do that all you want. C ya

 

hell no lol