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Try different condoms/brands. Are the condoms your using pre lubricated? there should be no need for lube if they are. things like condoms with bumps on them have different effects on people

 

they were pre lubricated but she wanted more lube cause she was so tight

 

Maybe the condom was too small and caused you to lose the circulation of blood, or maybe the condom was too thick and caused you to not feel anything.

Maybe the thought of using a condom turns you off? Could be a list of things.

 

Nervousness got the better of you. That's why you felt like shit afterwards.

 

Ive never had this problem before though and when she gives a bj or hand job its all good its as hard as a rock

 

Honestly condoms just suck to be honest with you. They cut off circulation and you can't feel anything. I know that's a bad thing to say. But I don't ever use them. Just use lube without one if you were planning on it anyway.

 

M8 plz..

OT: #1 BE CAREFUL. Some lubes can make condoms fall apart. Of course condoms dull the sensation, but if she's as tight as you say then shouldn't be a problem. This has happened to every guy at least once buddy. No need to freak out

 

I'm serious. It maybe an ignorant thing to say which that's fine. But he stated he wasn't planning on using one anyway. Condoms do suck, and that's a true statement. It's just my opinion feel free to disagree with it that's your choice.

 

In a physiologic perspective, I feel like this statement may be the issue. Have you tried purchasing a different size perhaps?

 

1) It's harder to maintain an erection if you're on your back (blood flow vs gravity) - I would blame this before anything else.
2) Try a better-fitting condom. I find trojans to be pretty comfortable, although a bit thick (though I think they have ultra-thin ones now?). I found it hard to keep hard in some of the tighter-fitting brands, but maybe that's me; heard that some people like that feeling.
3) Sometimes you just lose an erection for no reason. Sometimes it's something said, done, felt, or sensed; sometimes it's the airflow in the room. Don't worry about it. You can always foreplay yourself back to full strength if she's willing .
4) As a side note, I recommend using lube even if going at it without a condom. It's generally more comfortable for both partners.

 

You are nervous buddy. Take a deep breath next time.

 

It might also be the transitional period that was had in between getting it on and actually doing the dirty. Happened to me a couple of times. Let her put it on for you next time that fixed it for me.

 

Try a different brand/size, I believe that's where the issue lies. Don't be worried about this man, it's happened to everyone.

 

Buy some lube if you arent afraid of rawdogging. If you need to use a condom I suggest lifestyles or durex. Trojans feel a lot thicker. Ive lost hardons putting on rubbers too, the smell confounded with gross oily feel and the fact that they kill your feeling are all big turnoff's. Mainly its the smell that kills it for me, awful.

If its your GF and shes clean go ahead and lube up (water based) and go to town. Pulling out is proven more effectve against pregnancy anyways.

 

If the obvious things don't work; changing brands, sizes, positions, all above ^ etc then maybe try foreplay with the rubber on. Get some flavoured ones or something, whatever makes it as enjoyable as being without one.

 

Yup, found a brand that worked for me, and this issue is closed so can close.