Innuendo Question?

Ok there's this one girl that I've been talking to and she keeps inviting me over and she really wants the D. I'm 19 atm and I've never made out with a girl, never got a bj, never had a gf, and never had sex. I've had alot of chances but never took them because I guess I was just waiting for "the one". But now, I'm getting tired of my dry dick and have another opportunity with this girl. Shes a 6-7 but is dtf so I can release my sexual tension on her but idk if I should. Do you guys think I should keep waiting for a girl I actually really like or just get it over with? I really need legit advice on this, I'm supposed to be going to her house to watch the Germany game which I think is on this Thursday. Thanks

 

If she is throwing that pussy you better catch it. 6-7 is good enough for you to fuck around with. Just remember you don't live forever so waiting is a bad plan.

 

Ik but the thing that's making me doubt myself is that most of my friends that hooked up with sluts or black girls (not racist, i just have a different taste in girls) for their first time regretted it. I don't want to end up like them. This girl that I'm talking to now is about a 6-6.5 if I'm rating it fairly and I just don't wanna end up doing it and be like "this was too easy", she's moving things too quick. I talked to her for only about 3 days and she already wants it. What was ur first girl like if you had to rate her?

 

It's just sex. You're glorifying it too much and over thinking it. So what if you regret it? The world isn't going to end.

 

It's an experience you take to the grave. I don't want to tell my first time story in regret. I think I'm honestly answering my own questions by typing this lol. I think I should just not do it and wait for the right one. This girl was too easy and took it too fast. After the first one, I'll start caring less. I just want the first one to go as planned.

 

I'm 20, 21 in January and never had sex. I'm not even sure I want to; it seems to me that the act is glorified but in the end you don't actually GAIN anything from it. If anything it's a waste in my opinion. Nevertheless, here's my two cents:

It seems your basis of not doing it for fear of regret is dictated by ethics or morality, else there would be no reason for regret (assuming, of course, there's nothing related to STDs involved)

You need to think about what your morality is dictated by. Is your abstinence a point of pride? Do you take pride in how you are "saving" yourself for the right person? There's nothing wrong with that. In terms of modern ethical standards it's quite anachronistic, but I'd consider it a more honourable way of living in some regards.

If your morality is dictated by uncertainty or fear, that's something you can only deal with yourself.

Religious reasons, familial reasons, or any other sort of reason not to have random sex is fair enough. If, on the other hand, there is nothing holding you back, then you should realise that there's nothing to regret. If you end up regretting it, it could be due to a number of things but in your case the primary source of regret seems to be breaking some sort of moral code.

Here's a relevant quote from pop culture to finish:

 

Go with your heart, not your penis.

If you're wanting to go ahead and do as you please then don't hold back otherwise you'll regret not taking these chances.

However, you may be needing a paper bag to put over her head.

 

I disagree. Go with your head, not your heart OR your penis. Actually THINK.

 

If you want your first time to be meaningful then just hang on til you find someone you really want to be with.

Too many people just have sex for the sake of it, keep it for someone you love.

 

If you don't want to have sex with her then don't. There will be plenty more opportunities in life.

 

This. Also, realize that there are strings attached; it will quickly become more than just sex, whether you want it to or not. If you're not emotionally prepared and interested in that path, avoid it.

 

If you care that much about your first time, don't go. You can maybe just go make out with her as practice maybe but nothing more? haha

 

go for it, yolo

 

Go for the STD, YOLO right? You can't be that stupid.

My advice:

Just don't. Sex is not that GODLIKE as TV/magazines/etc depict it. Sex with that woman will be the same as mastrubating or worse. Sex without intemecy is just excercise + 2 sweaty bodys touching eachother. Don't do it, just don't.