Friends zone after dating the ex

Just curious do you still talk to your ex? because I was placed in the friends zone and when she comes back over seans there might be a chance to be together soon.

experience and stories below

 

Bad idea mate, I know from experience. Once you start pursuing an ex you're shutting yourself off from a world of new opportunity.

 

Nope lol. She was like "But we can always stay friends"
She unfriended me from facebook tho, after she ditched me cuz she cheated on me lol
In the first week i did get some texts, but now i haven't heard anything from her.
I'm honestly glad i don't have to talk to her/see her again.

I personally think it wouldn't be a good idea to get back together with your ex.

 

Yeah that always happens, "we can still be friends" is basically can I mooch shit off of you for free maybe ill give you a hug once in a while. Trying to get back with an Ex almost never works out, better to try new people.

 

Oh if you read my old thread you would understand me, but yeah still friends for NOW she means lol when she gets back lol

 

I would just remove her from my life, but it's up to you, you can be friends i guess.

 

Yeah I could. Sorry for being so stubborn about this..
She said she doesnt know what shes want's and I have a chance with her, seeing her in person would be good?

 

I'm still friends with my ex. Not great friends, but we talk from time to time. She still comes to me for advice and just whenever she wants something to hang out I'm there. We're not a thing anymore, obviously, but for the most part, I don't think staying friends is a bad thing. If you can get over the fact that you once "loved" one another, staying friends can relieve some stress. After a hard break up, you constantly think about it, and it brings you down. If you are on good terms with an ex, those feelings that bring you down won't be there anymore because you'll still be friends and you won't ever have to be sad that you never get to talk to them anymore, if you get what I mean.

 

Based on your previous topics in which I've read and replied to, I'd suggest to let this one go.
Sounds like you're in one of those on and off relationships which believe me do not last. You're wasting time with this chick.
I've never been in such situations but a lot of my friends have and none ever work. Let's say you do get back together, during the relationship you're eventually gonna remember why you guys broke up earlier and have second thoughts about it.
Once those thoughts travel through your mind you're just gonna be like "wtf am I doing with her?"

Just my opinion.