What to talk about on the first date?

Ideas? I don't want it to be like a job interview and shit, or say oh yeah my ex is that and that, she was bad, etc... How can I make it so we can both have a good time?

 

You can talk about hobbies that you 2 have with each other, maybe she likes playing games?

 

I would just talk about your interests, things that you like to do in your free time, how school is going and what your aspirations are for the future etc. But even more importantly, I would ask alot of questions. Women like to talk, and like it when you show a genuine interest in them. So make sure you aren't just sitting there blabbing on about your own life the whole time, ask alot of questions and give your lady friend an opportunity to talk about her life, the things that she likes to do etc.

 

Personal Experiences
Favorite Things
Where you are

Make sure you don't put the questions on rapid fire, ask one and then talk about that one, relate to it or say you've never done what shes talking about or if you have tell your experiences.

 

Try ask questions will start making her talk, if the girl is slightly into you, they'll have a conversation going the whole night/meal etc

 

Talk about things you like, school, college, family, friends etc. Make sure you do loads of eye contact though when speaking with her, just shows that you've got interest in what she's saying and you'll defiantly be respected for that. Best of luck, bro!

 

got any fun stories? jokes are nice, just dont overdo it and become that "dancing monkey" that everyone knows.

show you are a fun person to be around

 

Do NOT talk about your ex. That make seem like you're trying to make her jealous/still into your ex. Ask her questions but don't be pushy, let her talk about herself a lot. Women love to talk about herself, if you've got any funny/fun personal stories to tell that's always good. Don't try to show off though.

 

What kind of date do you plan on taking her on? I know a lot of people may advise against it, but in my experience as a pretty shy/ quiet guy, taking her to see a movie (usually a comedy) seemed to work best, since you're pretty much guaranteed to have a topic to chat about afterwards (what did you think of it? Have you seen blah?), which can easily flow into other conversations. Apart from that as others have said just try to get her talking about herself and appear to be genuinely interested in what she has to say, and try to tease her in a flirty way when appropriate.

 

#1 rule dont talk about ex, ever or chances go
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Usually, when you go on a date, there is a reason you are on one. Elaborate on that reason, you met somewhere perhaps? Then talk about that place and go from there.

You say something with humor before you initiate a question, it cuts down on the awkwardness. Sometimes, be creative, be like I want to be the most proficient stalker, how can I be more stealthy? If you are to use this line, you have to do with a sly smile or else you will come off creepy. It helps break the ice. When you talk to her, be like, what's your story, tell me your tale and input whereas you see fit. Holding a conversation is easy from then on, just make sure you are not too nervous or else you will freeze; can't emphasize enough "just relax".

If all doesn't go well, it's not the end of the world.