I also hate how no matter how hard I try, I can't seem to get the girls that I like. I know a few girls that like me, they are cool but I just don't like them like they like me. I have a lot of friends that are girls, I am always polite to them. Open up doors for them, comfort them when they are pissed off or sad, but nothing seems to work. I don't get it, I feel like an outcast in my group of friends, they get chicks with the snap of a finger but I try to get a girl and I can't. I'm 16 years old for christ sakes and have never had a girl friend or been kissed. Honestly, what the fuck.
I don't know though, just another pet peeve of mine that I need to work on changing (which I think I have been doing pretty well). *shrugs* I don't dwell on it anymore though, I have learned just to take things as they go. Shit happens, and you can't change what has happened. I don't let these type of thing get to me either which is why I am generally a happy person lol.