No No No.
You are all wrong, stop making stupid assumptions based on your flawed knowledge of hosting.
We've been with this host for almost a year. I've had two servers for almost a year. The mysql server is hidden, its not open to the public. The server which is being attacked is the apache server.
I have firewalls installed, anti ddos scripts, anti http flood scripts, detection systems and various software designed to harden linux servers. My host's dedicated server team, and I, have been fighting off attacks since the conception of sythe.org.
The problem essentially now is that we are no longer dealing with script kiddies, but professional attackers, who are paid to attack.