Bullying

Hey guys i was just watching this movie Named "Bully" Well it's a Documentary not a movie. The bullying in American Schools are extreme and its so upseting to watch. Bullying in Schools where i live Which is in Sweden is nowhere near as extreme as this, People getting pushed into a locker, getting beat up and being told to kill themselves. this is brutal this really bothers me in this Documentary there is a bunch of kids who have commited suicide since this. Fuck man

 

The internet only increases this, kids use to be able to get away from it at home but now with FaceBook and w/e kids are being bullied at home.

 

I got abit longer into the movie and apparently a 17 year old boy hung himself. The next day in school some kids came there with rope around their neck and they were trying to make fun of him. This is seriously beyond bullying these teachers suck dick they don't seem to do anything at all or even care.

 

The content of the documentary you watched was probably skewed by American liberal extremists.

The cases of extreme bullying like that are quite rare - you're only going to see that kind of activity in innercity schools.

 

that pushing in lockers shit is real? i thought that was only in t v shows lol damn... and yeah bullies are just insecure people who just don't wanna come out bout their problems. Just let them be in 10 years they'll be the ones working for you.

 

Exactly, The worse thing that happend around here since i was like 8 was a couple girls spray painted "whore" on a girls driveway after she slept with 2 of the girls ex-boyfriends.

Otherwise theres this one kid everyone thinks is a fag and we just dont talk to him. It's not like we push him into lockers, and pull up his pants while he's pissing. We just ignore him.

 

It's not extremists, there are millions of people being bullied (not only in the USA) to that extent.
I've witnessed it, been victim to it and seen and been a part of it's effects.
Kids these days generally have no respect for others, elders or parents and get fun out of picking on other people because it gets them laughs and popularity pretty much.

 

When I was in high school a kid got thrown in to a locker and got stuck, I don't know if he was actually stuck or just wouldn't get out but I remember the fire department had to come and get him out of the locker.

Bullying happens everywhere and it is even worse in some countries. In India the teachers bully the students, one of my younger cousins reached a point where she wouldn't go to school because the teacher gave her and her friends daily scoldings for things they didn't even do.

 

indian boarding schools eh, yah those places are just bad, my moms threatned to take me there so many times lol. And how does bullying still happen lol like actually in school bullying teachers are so cautious of it in my school, teachers should be stopping any bullying in your school. I was watching some kid get picked on my before just chillin cause i really didn't care ( i know im a dick) and i got a detention for just being a bystander.

 

Bullying happens everywhere, the world isn't horrible. It's what people create it to be, asshole bosses bullying their employees because they are pissed off and underpaid. Little asshole kids bullying other kids in school to make them feel big, it happens in most places. You can either be a victim or stand up for yourself, your life is what you make of it.

 

Master Fendle is right, you can't blame the kid bullying all time. IMO everyone should get harassed a little bit. Teach them to stand up for themselves, and that alone boosts self esteem.

 

I went to a very large High School and bullying was a topic that was addressed in 1 or 2 school assemblies, and once or twice in Communication Applications classes. Specifically, the class(or in some cases school) was asked whether or not they had been bullied at one point. Everyone I could see raised their hand.

Bullying is not a serious American epidemic. There are not dozens of daily teen suicides and school shootings because of extreme bullying. Everyone is bullied, and I might even go as far as to say it's good for you. If your parents and the educational system are there to protect your sorry weak ass from every insult and negative comment, they might as well put you in a padded room as well.

Never once have I seen a student physically abused for any bullying related reason. These are extremely rare and contained situations that are completely blown out of proportion by liberals(not a political bias on my part, just the facts) who believe that we should sugar coat life for these students.

Please keep in mind that I'm not condoning bullying, but the only students who ever were verbally bullied while I attended school were basically asking for it. These were students who walked around with chains hanging off their pants, or wore a tail to school, or were just plain obnoxious. One situation I remember very clearly is where a student with ADD(or ADHD?) was constantly yelled at by teachers and insulted by students for being disruptive and immature - he was dead set on being the center of attention in every class, and for this everyone hated him. He constantly broke school rules regarding sexual harassment and physical conduct, and as a result the student body took it into their own hands and isolated him.

If you travel to an intercity school, or a school located in a lower economic region, or just a "ghetto" school, you'll see frequent fights. These are the schools where bullying is a problem - in these schools the so called "fags" might get shouldered into a wall but I've certainly never heard of anyone being shoved into a locker.

I personally knew someone in High School who committed suicide, and he definitely wasn't bullied. The students that are bullied that ignore it and pull through are the students who are intelligent and will be successful in life. Students that attract the attention of bullies and allow this behavior to bring them down won't be successful, and it isn't necessarily be the bullies fault.

In short, these kids need to adapt to survive without having butthurt politicians and parents sugar coating their experience until they're legally adults. They need to learn to cope. If someone flips you off while you're driving or calls you a closet dog fucker on the street they aren't going to be sent to the principals office. Plain and simple. These extreme bullying cases are rare and extremely overexaggerated by people with their own personal agendas.

 

The school I went to was a normal public school, but there was pretty much zero bullying. Don't know why it was just the nature of the school. It was all boys school, inb4 getting called gay but in the UK all girls and all boys schools are normal.

 

when i was younger i got bullied too but its pretty much peaceful when you get into college Uni in my country.

 

That is the normal school system, boarding schools are much worse.