What Do You Do When:

[SexayMistahBee]

What do you do when there is a situation that constantly brings you to the brink of suicide, but you can do absolutely nothing about it?

For example, fighting it will only make it worse. Confronting it wont work at all, or effects are temporary so it's not even worth trying. Seeking help from others is a no go, either. It's also something that has been, and will be with you for a while.

Help me out, I'm hanging by a thread here.

Spiritual advice, mental advice, anything.

 

[Zerkerfist]

Well, not to intrude but it would help a lot to know what it is you are going through in order to offer adequate advice.

It sounds to me like this situation is making you feel helpless, and like whatever you do or however you try to handle it, it is not making any difference. I think you probably need to learn how to accept the situation - not change it, not alter it in any way, not run from it - but accept it, for what it is and for the fact that you cannot do anything about it

Maybe only then will you be able to find peace, when you can learn to live and coexist with whatever this thing is.

 

Well, not to intrude but it would help a lot to know what it is you are going through in order to offer adequate advice.

It sounds to me like this situation is making you feel helpless, and like whatever you do or however you try to handle it, it is not making any difference. I think you probably need to learn how to accept the situation - not change it, not alter it in any way, not run from it - but accept it, for what it is and for the fact that you cannot do anything about it

Maybe only then will you be able to find peace, when you can learn to live and coexist with whatever this thing is.

This^

When people are considering suicide they are thinking about helping themselves, but really they aren't helping themselves at all. I am guessing your are no older than 20-25. which means you have lived about 1/4 of your life.

I always say you have to go through bad things to learn to deal with them.
But as Zerker said.. What is your problem? We could offer a lot better advice if we knew what was happening.

 

[Zerkerfist]

I just want to add that if you feel uncomfortable discussing everything here publicly, you are more than welcome to contact me on MSN if you need to talk.

[email protected]

 

I just want to add that if you feel uncomfortable discussing everything here publicly, you are more than welcome to contact me on MSN if you need to talk.

[email protected]

That, and also if you feel uncomfortable explaining it and having it linked to your sythe account I believe you are able to anonymously post in Personal Support.

 

[Zack W]

Suicide is not an option. When you jump off a bridge or hang yourself when your dieing everyone regrets it after its to late. Dont be an idiot. God loves you and has a awesome plan for you.

 

[SexayMistahBee]

Suicide is not an option. When you jump off a bridge or hang yourself when your dieing everyone regrets it after its to late. Dont be an idiot. God loves you and has a awesome plan for you.

Hey, that's why I'm still here
I'm just looking for a better way to cope with this rather than sitting here waiting for something to hapoen.

 

Hey, that's why I'm still here
I'm just looking for a better way to cope with this rather than sitting here waiting for something to hapoen.

Don't think negatively, don't think something will happen.
Just try and live your life as normally.

Add my msn too, if I'm not online get on the Sythe IRC and check if I'm there.
[email protected]

 

[SexayMistahBee]

Don't think negatively, don't think something will happen.
Just try and live your life as normally.

That's exactly what I'm trying to do. I'm looking for a solution to this problem.