So im trying to connect to my elastichosts vps and ive tried all viewers such as real,tight,ultra etc but its just not connecting, has been working fine for around a month then just stopped overnight any help would be much appreciated.
A month exactly? Maybe you didn't pay for another month lol.
Anyway, you should have a control panel somewhere and from there you can reboot the system. If that doesn't work simply send them a support ticket or an e-mail.