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About a month girl I met this girl and we became talking chatty ect, at work this is and we always flirted she texted me everyday non stop in mornings before sleep ect almost all the time . I do like this girl A LOT and I do care for her A LOT. But like 3 day ago she told me she liked this other guy and he liked him and I helped her set up a date with that guy Shes 15 other guy is 15 im 16
Im in a higher grade then both, now she keeps telling me how excited she is but she still flirts with me allllllllll the time non stop and texts me non stop when I went on vacation she made me get skype so we could video chat this guy is a bitch who hasnt done anything and is very like pussy but we are friends this is just him all I am saying. Now I dont know what to do I like her she flirts with me a lot its not innocent either she always wants to hang out but idk what to do help:love:
 
Well you are in the friend zone I presume. She sees you as a friend and you will always be seen as a friend.

In order for you to show how you feel about her, you have to tell her. You tell her when it feels right, and be sure that she takes it serious, because telling her twice can be uncomfortable.

Good Luck! You will figure it out man!
 
Girls like to tease, especially when they have an audience. Act like you don't care nor answer her texts for a few days. If that doesn't work, make her jealous get another girl involved.
 
Girls like to tease, especially when they have an audience. Act like you don't care nor answer her texts for a few days. If that doesn't work, make her jealous get another girl involved.

That's possibly the worst advice I've seen on how to deal with girls. Escalating the problem doesn't fix it.

Tell the girl how you feel about her. Tell her also that her flirting with two guys is uncomfortable, and ask her to make up her mind. Reassure her that you value your friendship with her, and don't sound like you're being aggressive. If you prove to be the better male, she'll choose you over him. If not, things weren't meant to be.
 
Well you are in the friend zone I presume. She sees you as a friend and you will always be seen as a friend.

In order for you to show how you feel about her, you have to tell her. You tell her when it feels right, and be sure that she takes it serious, because telling her twice can be uncomfortable.

Good Luck! You will figure it out man!
Nah, its not the friend zone she like holds my hand she like hugs me kisses me goodbye she knows im not gay either
Girls like to tease, especially when they have an audience. Act like you don't care nor answer her texts for a few days. If that doesn't work, make her jealous get another girl involved.
Sorrz but this is the worst advice ever im not a tool.
That's possibly the worst advice I've seen on how to deal with girls. Escalating the problem doesn't fix it.

Tell the girl how you feel about her. Tell her also that her flirting with two guys is uncomfortable, and ask her to make up her mind. Reassure her that you value your friendship with her, and don't sound like you're being aggressive. If you prove to be the better male, she'll choose you over him. If not, things weren't meant to be.
I dun wanna though, and it doesnt make me uncomfortable, she knows im agressive and she knows ive been with other girls ect shes only been felt up and I know she thinks us doing stuff Ill take it to far, that kid is a fag I know there not going anywhere that guy isnt the girl type hes like a gaz friend she touches me the same he touches her lol

best advice so far.
 
Dude, u know how many times this happened to me? im 18 and its happened to me at ur age too. Ummm what i can tell u is
1. girls are a tease like others said.
2. they always talkin a flirty manner its how u read the signs
3. ur definately in the friend zone, only way to get out is to tell her how u feel and i did theh same what happ to me is the girl said something like oh i didnt see u that way and if she does u cant do anything about it or force her just stay friends or it would end.
4. always be straight forward dont play games cuz it confuses everyone. And if she asks u to set up something or tells u she really likes a guy its cuz she thinks of u as a friend.

sorry if this goes wrong but its life, its happened to me multiple times. wish u the best man PM me if u need anything
 
Dude, u know how many times this happened to me? im 18 and its happened to me at ur age too. Ummm what i can tell u is
1. girls are a tease like others said.
2. they always talkin a flirty manner its how u read the signs
3. ur definately in the friend zone, only way to get out is to tell her how u feel and i did theh same what happ to me is the girl said something like oh i didnt see u that way and if she does u cant do anything about it or force her just stay friends or it would end.
4. always be straight forward dont play games cuz it confuses everyone. And if she asks u to set up something or tells u she really likes a guy its cuz she thinks of u as a friend.

sorry if this goes wrong but its life, its happened to me multiple times. wish u the best man PM me if u need anything

1. shes not a tease though shes like really new to this stuff I dont think she knows how to
2. Nah when zou hug goodbye and like grab my dick I think its like not in friend yone or shit
3. I dont think so honestly like I KNOW were not but idk
4. she met him a work for like a day and idkkkkkk she does 2 much stuff for us only 2 be friends. unless were friends with benefits

it doesnt bother me because I know if I really wanted to I could try to get another girl and I know it doesnt go my way all day but I cant stand being in the friend zone with anygirllll idk im lost as fuck lol
 
Shit, thats like weird. Honestly, all i can tell u is she MIGHT be just playin u...and seein that ur ok with her talkin to that other guy might make her think its ok. Thats one thought...and if you were friends with benefits she would tell u so u dont get too attached. honestly idk what else to tell u, never had someone play me while talkin to someone else in front of my face.
 
Shit, thats like weird. Honestly, all i can tell u is she MIGHT be just playin u...and seein that ur ok with her talkin to that other guy might make her think its ok. Thats one thought...and if you were friends with benefits she would tell u so u dont get too attached. honestly idk what else to tell u, never had someone play me while talkin to someone else in front of my face.

Shes 2 new to dating to be playing me and 2 nice. I dont care because I know Ill be done... and her brother told her not to dostuff with me because I did his ex gf so he knows I am agressive like that she tellls me via text she likes the other guy and I helped them set up a date because I want her to be happy but like I went to netherlands for vacation and she skyped me everday and like video chatted be like touching her tits all the time
 
ok so 1 advice for you, dont always say no shes not like that, doing this ur trying to convince urself shes not like that...u wont believe me now but trust me i used to do that till i learned the truth. Im NOT saying shes a whore or w.e but im saying u never know what someones thinking. so anyway idk what shes up to, all i can do is give u my advice which i did and wish u the best. good luck man!
 
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