Two Lives... please help

[natwak]

I lived in Tasmania for two years of my life, moving from Melbourne, i left my entire family except for my father and step mother. i moved in with them and did schooling at scottsdale. after completing year 10 i moved to Burnie to attend Hellyer College.
i had been stabbed in the back, i found myself homeless several times, it seemed friend and foe alike lurked in the dark waiting to strike again.
i moved to Melbourne for a month waiting for a house which was getting ready. i was informed that i was no longer getting that house. the situation at the moment is that i dreamed of living independently, i had a life in Tasmania. As i spent time with new people in Melbourne i developed a life here as well. A decision has to be made, Melbourne or Tasmania?
Using this information can you please post advise and your thoughts on this situation...
thank you for your time.

 

[Actife]

If you can still be in contact with your family and relatives then give melbourne a shot. If not, stay with your family, they're more precious then anything in the world.

 

[Sharcoth]

Make up your own mind, don't let somebody else make it up for you.

And don't come to sythe with a problem like this because that's just stupid.